To shag: young girl

To date: milf

Ideal is somewhere between two. Very unlikely I'd have anything to do with a woman under the age of 20 though. The vast majority are too immature and their interests aren't compatible with mine.

i have rarely met a girl with similar interest as mine
if i ever meet a girl who's into videogames Anime and the Pixies im marrying her!!

I'd actually just prefer somebody around my own age, like maybe 2 years difference either way is the most I would do. I'm 23, so guys under 21 are usually immature, they still have a few years of university left, and they just want to party and have a good time. Over 25 - he's probably done school and well established on his career path, whereas I'm still in school and will always be behind him for at least a few years.

Someone who is in the same age bracket as me is usually also at the same stage of life as I am. So we can continue on in life together :)

What burning down said about partying is what I was getting at too. I agree. Can't be dealing with women getting pissed every weekend and going to magaluf with their girlies.

Why is that so important though? Most women that I talk to get so hung up over age and having to be in the same stage of life. I honestly couldn't care less about that. If I make a deep connection with someone and they are in a different stage of life then I just roll with it. Petty things like that don't matter if I really care about the person.

i can understand that, i would like to find a woman who's in the same stage in life as i am however i would also like a woman who's NOT in the same stage as i am..

i kinda believe that opposites attract because one person has what the other one doesn't
now im not saying you can't find that around ppl your own age im saying for me how our personalities interact is more important to how similar we are

Why would you want to date someone who has some other dudes kid.......

why would that be an issue?

i find most women that have kids aren't really looking to burden their new guy into being a father cause obviously that would scare them away.

that said i do a agree a little with you if i met a girl and she had like 3 kids all from a different father that would be pretty hard to overlook

but if she has like 1 kid or 2 its not that bad

Might be a daughter. 2 for the price of 1 :cool:.

dude ive met sooo many mid-late 20s women who are single with a kid. thats baggage i dont wanna carry, i stay away from that

probably 2-3 yrs either way i would date. unlike chameleon i do think the stages in life should be compatible. that was a big problem in my last relationship.