What if im not a poser, just a douchebag?

was wanderin the same thing lol


well anyways i dont like a girl to be dominant just aggressive sometimes. like for us to be chillin and her to just be like 'eat me out/**** me' cause then i can do the same tihng lol. i like dominance play more like when she tries to get dominant but i out-dominate her and just take over. yeaaaa buddy

Thanks Rez, Stephen, Vanilla and Lateralus for your comments.

We have talked about it several times and have tried various things and likely will talk and try more things in the future. In the end, I guess she just has less of a sex drive than I do and I guess I've come to the conclusion that I just have to live with that. The sex we do have, I am happy with. I just wish it happened more often. She more than makes up for it in other ways, though. And I am capable of having a tug now and then. Since I got laid yesterday, my current outlook is more positive than when I wrote that post :p:

Haha :D

Is the amount of times you do it one of the main problems? How often do you have sex and how often would you like to have sex?

tore.....dude im not trollin or foolin or jokin at all. try what i said!!!!! and report back so i cna shut up paul smeem

The amount is a problem. I think we have sex something like every fifth day on average, so a little more than once a week. I'd like to have sex two to three times a week. Just writing it, I know there are probably married men who would read this and think I am fuzzing over nothing. Maybe I am.

Frequency and the frustration of being rejected are things I've dealt with by taking more care of myself sexually. Of course I understand and respect her every right to not have/want sex as much as I do so instead of approaching her when I feel horny, I just take care of business on my own. Sometimes I still test the waters and she will respond or she may approach me and then it's all good of course.

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I don't want to condition my wife into having some kind of sexual pavlovian response to my sex perfume, regardless of whether or not it works. But it was an interesting suggestion :p:

What? you want sex two to three times a week as a married man? who do you think you are sir?

I broke my dry spell! Unfortunately it was with a very close friend that I really shouldn't have done anything with. I'm not entirely sure how the next week and a bit we have to spend together is going to play out now.

Oh shit. I done that once. I hope it works out well for you, it never for me but that's because the dude was an awkward salmon about when I was just normal. He basically avoided me until I blatantly realised it. In some instances it has worked though so here's hoping :).

I conducted my first BD/SM session in awhile and I realized how rusty I am. I was horny too so after a few paddle smacks on her ass. I was completely over it and just went back to normal sex. Next time I will gag her like I was supposed to so she can't instruct me on how I should be paddling her lol. She was telling me to hit different areas instead of the same one place. I feel like she just has a low pain threshold but I'm willing to work with her.