The Sexual Experience Thread

[Bane of your existence]

Originally Posted by AwwSugar

That's not necessarily true. I'm all for getting better at pleasuring someone. I like to know what I'm doing wrong and what feels good.

I'm just saying, I'm going to enjoy it. I take my own lead. I like being in tune with a girl. I like being an anomoly. I like to be forcefull at the same time that I'm trying to be as soft as possible. I like it to be quiet enough to synch breathing and also like her screaming. I just enjoy sex. And honestly, if I don't like it with someone, I'd rather not waste my own time trying to fix them. Chances are it's something physical or something I'd have to put effort in to changing if she'd even be willing to change at all. I'd rather just move on.

[Kool_Dude_HaMeR]

Originally Posted by Bane of your existence

I agree with this.
Whoever said "do you tell girls what you want," I don't really 'want' anything. I'm not into any kind of fetish or anything, I'm just along for the ride. It's like that "worst day of golfing better than the best day at work" saying. Even if it's 'bad,' it's still pretty awesome.

"I'm like pizza and sex, even when I'm bad I'm still pretty good" <-Prozack Turner

[Arya Stark]

Originally Posted by Bane of your existence

I'm just saying, I'm going to enjoy it. I take my own lead. I like being in tune with a girl. I like being an anomoly. I like to be forcefull at the same time that I'm trying to be as soft as possible. I like it to be quiet enough to synch breathing and also like her screaming. I just enjoy sex. And honestly, if I don't like it with someone, I'd rather not waste my own time trying to fix them. Chances are it's something physical or something I'd have to put effort in to changing if she'd even be willing to change at all. I'd rather just move on.

That's true. What I'm saying is, for example, if one is in a relationship, and they like one thing more than another, one such as myself may rather know the difference, so that the person is more pleasured. I would rather pleasure the person to the fullest of my ability than for them to just be happy I'm there.

There's a reason they're with me at that moment, and I want to make that moment last.

[jackhammer]

I really can't remember anymore. It's an affliction caused in the long term so I have heard.

[Scarlett O'Hara]

Originally Posted by AwwSugar

That's true. What I'm saying is, for example, if one is in a relationship, and they like one thing more than another, one such as myself may rather know the difference, so that the person is more pleasured. I would rather pleasure the person to the fullest of my ability than for them to just be happy I'm there.

There's a reason they're with me at that moment, and I want to make that moment last.

No offense, but that came off making you sound really desperate for someone to like you, feel free to elaberate. It's really important to have a balance. Yes, girls take a lot more work sometimes in comparison to guys in regards sex but it doesn't mean that a guy shouldn't make an effort to make you come or orgasm. If he really likes you and isn't a lazy, selfish ******* acting like it's a string of one night stands, then he should generally want to pleasure you for you.

[Miltamec Soundsquinaez]

Anyone ever try that Streammate interactive sex site? It's kind of cool to be telling a chick exactly what you want her to do, and she does it. Also, I just like talking to a girl and not seeing her run the other way, for once. Fukking expensive, though.

[NSW]

Originally Posted by Vanilla

No offense, but that came off making you sound really desperate for someone to like you, feel free to elaberate. It's really important to have a balance. Yes, girls take a lot more work sometimes in comparison to guys in regards sex but it doesn't mean that a guy shouldn't make an effort to make you come or orgasm. If he really likes you and isn't a lazy, selfish ******* acting like it's a string of one night stands, then he should generally want to pleasure you for you.

I didn't get that impression at all. I think she was just saying that when she is with someone in a committed relationship, she likes to make sure they are pleasured as much as possible, instead of just being happy they are getting a half-assed blow job or what have you. Which I think is pretty awesome...but I could have misunderstood her too.

[Scarlett O'Hara]

Originally Posted by nonsubmissivewife

I didn't get that impression at all. I think she was just saying that when she is with someone in a committed relationship, she likes to make sure they are pleasured as much as possible, instead of just being happy they are getting a half-assed blow job or what have you. Which I think is pretty awesome...but I could have misunderstood her too.

I think maybe you're right, I missed a couple of key words when reading it. Sorry aww sugar! My point still applies though, minus the sugar part.

[jackhammer]

Originally Posted by AwwSugar

That's true. What I'm saying is, for example, if one is in a relationship, and they like one thing more than another, one such as myself may rather know the difference, so that the person is more pleasured. I would rather pleasure the person to the fullest of my ability than for them to just be happy I'm there.

Ain't that the truth.

[Arya Stark]

Heh, I didn't realize I said something that would make a splash. ^_^;;

Originally Posted by Vanilla

No offense, but that came off making you sound really desperate for someone to like you, feel free to elaberate. It's really important to have a balance. Yes, girls take a lot more work sometimes in comparison to guys in regards sex but it doesn't mean that a guy shouldn't make an effort to make you come or orgasm. If he really likes you and isn't a lazy, selfish ******* acting like it's a string of one night stands, then he should generally want to pleasure you for you.

I completely agree with you, aside from the part with the desperation. Haha. What nonsubmissivewife said was true, if I'm in a relationship, I'd like the moment to mean something. I don't mean in an emotional way only, but no one wants to look back at something and have negative memories. I want it to be memorable. Thank you for giving me the chance to explain myself, though, rather than attacking me. [=

Originally Posted by nonsubmissivewife

I didn't get that impression at all. I think she was just saying that when she is with someone in a committed relationship, she likes to make sure they are pleasured as much as possible, instead of just being happy they are getting a half-assed blow job or what have you. Which I think is pretty awesome...but I could have misunderstood her too.

Thank you for explaining what I meant, especially since I didn't have the chance to at the moment. That's exactly what I mean, hehe. And I'm quite glad you think it's awesome. <3

Originally Posted by Vanilla

I think maybe you're right, I missed a couple of key words when reading it. Sorry aww sugar! My point still applies though, minus the sugar part.

I do that all of the time. I have to read posts three times, otherwise I'll go straight into attack-mode and COMPLETELY lose the point of the thread. xD <3

Originally Posted by jackhammer

Ain't that the truth.

^_^ Thank you. What would I do without you and your posts and advice? <3