Arya Stark |
06-20-2009 10:37 PM |
Heh, I didn't realize I said something that would make a splash. ^_^;;
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Originally Posted by Vanilla
(Post 686971)
No offense, but that came off making you sound really desperate for someone to like you, feel free to elaberate. It's really important to have a balance. Yes, girls take a lot more work sometimes in comparison to guys in regards sex but it doesn't mean that a guy shouldn't make an effort to make you come or orgasm. If he really likes you and isn't a lazy, selfish ******* acting like it's a string of one night stands, then he should generally want to pleasure you for you. :)
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I completely agree with you, aside from the part with the desperation. Haha. What nonsubmissivewife said was true, if I'm in a relationship, I'd like the moment to mean something. I don't mean in an emotional way only, but no one wants to look back at something and have negative memories. I want it to be memorable. Thank you for giving me the chance to explain myself, though, rather than attacking me. [=
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Originally Posted by nonsubmissivewife
(Post 686976)
I didn't get that impression at all. I think she was just saying that when she is with someone in a committed relationship, she likes to make sure they are pleasured as much as possible, instead of just being happy they are getting a half-assed blow job or what have you. Which I think is pretty awesome...but I could have misunderstood her too.
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Thank you for explaining what I meant, especially since I didn't have the chance to at the moment. That's exactly what I mean, hehe. And I'm quite glad you think it's awesome. <3
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Originally Posted by Vanilla
(Post 686982)
I think maybe you're right, I missed a couple of key words when reading it. Sorry aww sugar! My point still applies though, minus the sugar part.
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I do that all of the time. I have to read posts three times, otherwise I'll go straight into attack-mode and COMPLETELY lose the point of the thread. xD <3
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Originally Posted by jackhammer
(Post 686985)
Ain't that the truth.
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^_^ Thank you. What would I do without you and your posts and advice? <3
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