Originally Posted by shiseido red (Post 684327)

You don't think you'd be too occupied reveling in your love for Radiohead during the act? :P

Originally Posted by shiseido red (Post 684327)

Nice choice.

You don't think you'd be too occupied reveling in your love for Radiohead during the act? :P

Originally Posted by Veridical Fiction (Post 684303)

I honestly never found myself setting mood music for sex. Even in my longest relationship, which was over 2 years, I found it better to not try and stage the act. It just detracts from things.
Your best relationship sex happens on cue, but is often a result of planting a seed (no pun intended) that flowers during the day.
For instance, little comments to each other, a bit of sexual wordplay here and there, a general buildup of anticipation.. it almost always ends up in an explosive night.
I think the most important thing when sexually romanticizing a woman is focusing on her mind, because everyone knows that's the button you push in order to get her started.
New relationships might be a little more physically based, but eventually, us guys are going to need more than a nice body and a good ass to get our girls going.

Using music is a distraction, personally.
I want to hear the sounds she makes. I want sex to be about us, not some band like a soundtrack to a movie. I think people are too stricken by movie sex scenes that contain music and they think it will help them in bed. Music isn't going to make your sex better.
That job is up to you.

Originally Posted by Bane of your existence (Post 684329)

Becoming a lesbian would help. Veridical is a woman.

Originally Posted by Vanilla (Post 684342)

Yeah that sounds more like it. But if a guy can understand the point of foreplay then we should be able to get everything else out of our mind in order to fully enjoy the experience.

Originally Posted by Veridical Fiction (Post 684350)

Foreplay starts the moment you meet someone you're sexually interested in.
But I won't deny, sexual foreplay itself is very important if the guy actually wants the girl to have any kind of worth-while enjoyment.

That's how you judge whether a guy is into you, or just into your magnificent cunt.

Originally Posted by Vanilla (Post 684430)

I agree, if a guy was to just go straight in there, I know he's only doing it for himself.

Originally Posted by JayJamJah (Post 684435)

And you'd be correct.

My favorite part of a relationship was always the stage where it became exciting to just jump right into sex, when skipping the foreplay becomes exciting and spontaneous.

Originally Posted by Veridical Fiction (Post 684449)

That's always nice too. I mean.. any guy here can confirm that it's like a free pass if you get your girlfriend to let you have your way without any concern to her needs.

But there's just as much enjoyment in exploring the human body and fantasies that can make the road to actual sex just as enjoyable as the sex itself.
It's an act of respecting the cause just as much as the effect. If you don't get anything out of foreplay, you're only experiencing half of a sexual experience.

Originally Posted by xxawwxsugarxx (Post 684451)

Do you have a younger brother?