The Sexual Experience Thread

dac · 06-17-2009, 08:19 PM

I haven't met a big enough Radiohead fan to break out the music yet...

333 · 06-17-2009, 08:24 PM

Rarely do I ever put an album on to set the mood, but sometimes, it just does it for you. Last album I had sex to was BTBAM's Colors - odd, I know (especially during the redneck breakdown), but the proggy stuffs the way to go with me. Most of the time, though, I feel way to ****ing cheesy when ****ing to a soundtrack. I feel like I should grind to the beat or something.

Astronomer · 06-17-2009, 08:51 PM

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Originally Posted by dac

I haven't met a big enough Radiohead fan to break out the music yet...

dac, if you did, what song would it be?

Bane of your existence · 06-17-2009, 08:52 PM

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Originally Posted by boo boo

I'd probably go right for the prog.

Because I want a woman who can shag in odd time.

Give me a chick that can fuck in D-beat.

Freebase Dali · 06-17-2009, 09:09 PM

I honestly never found myself setting mood music for sex. Even in my longest relationship, which was over 2 years, I found it better to not try and stage the act. It just detracts from things.
Your best relationship sex happens on cue, but is often a result of planting a seed (no pun intended) that flowers during the day.
For instance, little comments to each other, a bit of sexual wordplay here and there, a general buildup of anticipation.. it almost always ends up in an explosive night.
I think the most important thing when sexually romanticizing a woman is focusing on her mind, because everyone knows that's the button you push in order to get her started.
New relationships might be a little more physically based, but eventually, us guys are going to need more than a nice body and a good ass to get our girls going.

Using music is a distraction, personally.
I want to hear the sounds she makes. I want sex to be about us, not some band like a soundtrack to a movie. I think people are too stricken by movie sex scenes that contain music and they think it will help them in bed. Music isn't going to make your sex better.
That job is up to you.

Astronomer · 06-17-2009, 09:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Veridical Fiction

Your best relationship sex happens on cue, but is often a result of planting a seed (no pun intended) that flowers during the day.
For instance, little comments to each other, a bit of sexual wordplay here and there, a general buildup of anticipation.. it almost always ends up in an explosive night.
I think the most important thing when sexually romanticizing a woman is focusing on her mind, because everyone knows that's the button you push in order to get her started.
New relationships might be a little more physically based, but eventually, us guys are going to need more than a nice body and a good ass to get our girls going.

I wish the guys I knew thought like this!

dac · 06-17-2009, 09:13 PM

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Originally Posted by shiseido red

dac, if you did, what song would it be?

Idioteque would be a blast

Astronomer · 06-17-2009, 09:23 PM

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Originally Posted by dac

Idioteque would be a blast

Nice choice.

You don't think you'd be too occupied reveling in your love for Radiohead during the act? :P

Bane of your existence · 06-17-2009, 09:23 PM

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Originally Posted by shiseido red

I wish the guys I knew thought like this!

Becoming a lesbian would help. Veridical is a woman.

Arya Stark · 06-17-2009, 09:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Bane of your existence

Becoming a lesbian would help. Veridical is a woman.

Eh, not really.

06-17-2009, 08:19 PM	#761 (permalink)
dac MB's Biggest Fanboy Join Date: May 2008 Location: Cloud Cuckoo Land Posts: 2,852	I haven't met a big enough Radiohead fan to break out the music yet... __________________

06-17-2009, 09:09 PM	#765 (permalink)
Freebase Dali Partying on the inside Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 5,584	I honestly never found myself setting mood music for sex. Even in my longest relationship, which was over 2 years, I found it better to not try and stage the act. It just detracts from things. Your best relationship sex happens on cue, but is often a result of planting a seed (no pun intended) that flowers during the day. For instance, little comments to each other, a bit of sexual wordplay here and there, a general buildup of anticipation.. it almost always ends up in an explosive night. I think the most important thing when sexually romanticizing a woman is focusing on her mind, because everyone knows that's the button you push in order to get her started. New relationships might be a little more physically based, but eventually, us guys are going to need more than a nice body and a good ass to get our girls going. Using music is a distraction, personally. I want to hear the sounds she makes. I want sex to be about us, not some band like a soundtrack to a movie. I think people are too stricken by movie sex scenes that contain music and they think it will help them in bed. Music isn't going to make your sex better. That job is up to you. __________________

06-17-2009, 08:24 PM	#762 (permalink)
333 Music Addict Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 965	Rarely do I ever put an album on to set the mood, but sometimes, it just does it for you. Last album I had sex to was BTBAM's Colors - odd, I know (especially during the redneck breakdown), but the proggy stuffs the way to go with me. Most of the time, though, I feel way to **ing cheesy when **ing to a soundtrack. I feel like I should grind to the beat or something.