I .. at first thought that you must be kidding .. I am currently happily married with five children, my two youngest still living at home. I also travel alot of the time through the year for weeks at a time (sadly enough). But I never break the rules of trust and understanding that I have with my "current":laughing: .. wife of 20yrs +.

It's Great, to be young and question opinions concerning true love, two as one, trust, honesty. "I understand .. believe me". Didn't mean to give the impession I don't know the difference between having the attributes associated with having good morals when concerning society and relationships between two people or whatever the circumstance may be.

Or .. whatever "In the hell" we are talking about! :confused: Here.

Let's talk about sex again.

I've never been one to have casual sex, and I recently split up with my boyfriend of 3 years. Needless to say, my sex life is nonexistent. As a female, I'm well aware if how easy it is to get some, but I can't seem to get past the awkwardness of casually being penetrated. I have no one night stand experiences and want to hear about what others have experienced.

Geez, he can get an escort for 300 bucks/hour and have the real deal plus much more if he wanted

Foot fetishes are just disgusting anyways

I had an old roommate that liked to clip girls nails and eat them.

Doesn't sound like you're ready to have a casual affair honestly. I only had 1 night stand when I was in College. I wouldn't call it awkward we were friends for about a month and did the movie and coffee thing and she just wanted someone to plow her so it was as casual as it gets. We remained friends as we were still in the same classes and worked on various projects vocally. Sometimes people have needs and look past that awkwardness you speak of. You sound like a relationship person in your heart, probably best to just take care of yourself until you meet someone.

Lets wait and see how many offers come pouring in first though. :yeah:

Well, I don't want a relationship. Not for a long time, anyway. I like being alone, but getting off alone can be a bore. It's not that I dont want casual sex. I'm curious about how to go about it ... Without alcohol. As you guessed, I'm more of a relationship person, but I don't want to remain in my comfort zone. I'd like to use this body while I'm still young! Besides, back-to-back relationships aren't any better than sleeping around.

I Totally Agee.

Believe me! The man you finally meet and fall in love with could be your "knight in shinning armour! Just saying .. Good Luck with your decisions.

I don't think shes ready for a knight in shining armor. Sounds like shes just looking to **** dude.

But... he's not into women...

Should make it much easier then. :band: