Well she had sex with a girl and is still so fond of her, but I think she was attracted to her as person and not because she was a girl.



My mate loves diq too much to be bi.

I've never kissed a woman (and I've only ever kissed one guy so I'm not terribly experienced) but like I said I did go through a period when I was about 18 or 19 where I believed that I was asexual, but now I'm thinking it was a way for me to justify my lack of a love life.

^this. I'm so confused about it, I like men, but it's like... I'm not sexually attracted to them. But hermoine pointed out that could be due to my being fussy. I honestly don't know.

Oh I'm definitely sexually attracted to men and not sexually attracted to women, I came to that realization after almost a year of wondering. It's hard to tell whether fussiness is affecting your judgment. I think stuff like that runs much deeper into the psyche.

I know it does, it's not just black and white. Which makes it so much more confusing. I just wish I knew what the **** I was into. It's not like I have never been sexually attracted to men, I was all the time when I was younger. I had a different love every week just about.


To be honest I think it's due to the fact I'm not ready for a relationship, I have never been in a real relationship and I think that could contribute. I honestly dunno, I am just waiting on it all unfolding.

That's absolutely normal, not everyone is sexually crazied. You just came to enjoy/seek sex at a later stage, perhaps that is because you were naturally already fulfilled in your life.

I don't think it's that you're fussy, it's just you're on a different wavelength to most men and that's why you aren't sexually attracted to them. You will find somebody, but it will be on your terms. That's what I like about you, you don't take **** from people and don't desperately seek attention from men. Unlike me who loves attention, haha. But I don't actually get with a lot of men, I'm very selective and only go with someone if I actually have feelings for them and it's going to go somewhere.

Ditto, and everyone goes through some form of unknown when it comes to sexuality.

[QUOTE=Vanilla;1275752]That's absolutely normal, not everyone is sexually crazied. You just came to enjoy/seek sex at a later stage, perhaps that is because you were naturally already fulfilled in your life.



I don't think it's that you're fussy, it's just you're on a different wavelength to most men and that's why you aren't sexually attracted to them. You will find somebody, but it will be on your terms. That's what I like about you, you don't take **** from people and don't desperately seek attention from men. Unlike me who loves attention, haha. But I don't actually get with a lot of men, I'm very selective and only go with someone if I actually have feelings for them and it's going to go somewhere.



It could just be she needs a good dicking. Wavelengths are overrated. :shycouch:

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Are you volunteering Fred? ;)

If I was single i'd fly to Scotland and tap that ass like it was going outta style. :afro:

If I was a lesbo, I would fully go there too, Kayleigh is smoking!