Are you looking for something to help you get off?

Has anyone ever woken up really tired but horny with every intention of initiating some sex with the significant other...then went back to sleep and dreamt that you actually did initiate it? I've been doing that a lot recently and the dreams keep progressing to crazier and crazier things...then I wake up and I don't have time to actually initiate it.

Here's a hypothetical question for the ladies of MB. Would you date a guy who fulfilled your emotional needs, but was uninterested in sex. Perhaps not to the point of unwilling to have it, but is open in his dissatisfaction with it. In effect he'd let you use his body for your own satisfaction, while not gaining any for himself, basically becoming a living sex toy that hogs the sheets and farts on your legs.

I know you're asking the ladies, but I'm gonna go ahead and say that such a thing would not be a fulfillment of emotional needs.

Okay I didn't think that entirely through, but fulfills most of your emotional needs, at least the ones that don't revolve around sex. Could you be with him, even if after sex he felt unsatisfied, not because of your per say, but because sex as a whole just isn't that interesting to him.

I'm again going to interject on the ladies' behalf and say that a sexual connection is probably a pretty important part of the relationship. I definitely would like to see what the women here have to say, but for me, it seems like asking a question when you already know the answer.
I will, however, acknowledge that guys might tend to see it differently in some cases, and I wouldn't be opposed to the assumption that some women might be ok with simply having a hard d*ck around, but using the criteria of what I feel is an emotional relationship, I don't know how to assume that the majority of women seeking a meaningful relationship would find the lack of a sexual connection conducive to that relationship, seeing as how it's a part of the emotional connection that differentiates that relationship from most others that are mostly a given in most people's lives.

Definitely not. I've already had a boyfriend like that and I was wanting it a couple of times a day and he asked to have a sex free time with me. Ha! That didn't last long.

Congrats for enjoying but if he's good then it should happen more often.

**** all the male bravado about how many times or who with etc if a man can get in a car and drive it at fifty for an hour and know WHEN to step on the gas to reach the speed limit instead of driving at eighty all the time and not stopping to enjoy the view then he has no appreciation of what he is driving.

Much more satisfying to reach the destination together.

Analogy over. Need to look at some views.

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Kudos.

Alright, I get what you're saying about sex, but what the **** are you talking about with the whole car thing?! :confused: