probably traditional Chinese customs, I guess

They break when using tampons too.

she uses pads

she did agree to let me penetrate her a few times, yes, there was something there - and the circumstances were such that i felt it was too much effort, not romantic enough, she's panicky, and there was quite a bit of pain

add to that, i didn't want to make a mess on my bedsheets nor on any of my fabrics

That happened to a friend of mine once. Hehe

Um, if she's menstruating, she already has a hole in her hymen.

There can be holes in it but it could still be there. From what I believe they're supposed to have small holes in it. I doubt its intact anymore seen as Duce just declared he'd put his penis through it :).

not all the way through

Yup, you are correct, Fanny. The only time the hymen completely is gone is after childbirth, iirc

I thought the hymen wasn't so much a shield as it was a ring. Like, it doesn't block the vagina so much as constrict it. Of course I'm also pretty ignorant on the subject.

i used to be really anal about learning all this stuff

when i started having sex, it's just "fuck it, just stick it in and wallow in the mud like a sex pig"