The Sexual Experience Thread

[djchameleon]

Originally Posted by AwwSugar

If you're comfortable with the person, in love even, the experience can be amazing. It's the loss of control, the loss of the "Oh baby, did I hurt you?" And that all comes after, and it's 10x stronger than it is every other day. Nobody is joking about it or making light of it, I'm sure every girl with that fantasy is aware that what they're doing is not at all like what actually happens. As long as the girl isn't going around saying "Hahahaha I would love to be raped!" then there isn't really a problem.
Like I said, it can bring two people closer. I'm all about letting go, I'm all about getting close enough to a person when I love them or want to be with them that I can see and feel and know their innermost desires when we're having sex.

I understand that feeling and that's how it works with the BD/SM community and I would be into that if it was with a girlfriend of mines that I truly cared about deeply and trusted her. I'm more of a switch. I like to take the submissive role but if I'm with a girl and she's also submissive then I take control and I can be the dominant one.

I feel like that is different than the whole rape fantasy roleplay though but I don't know I could be wrong. I have never done that before.

[Howard the Duck]

Originally Posted by Dirty

I don't really see how a rape fantasy differs all that much from really rough sex where the girl basically just lets the guy destroy her. Can someone who has done the rape fantasy thing explain to me how, or if, it really even differs from rough sex.

look it isn't even my idea of a good-time, it's hers - that's just because she was extremely violent with her ex, which nearly got to the point that she cut off his arm with a chopping knife (luckily it was dull) and she got off on that

she was also drunk-raped, apparently, but never reported it to the police and actually fell in love with the rapist - so I mean, women, huh? you figure them out

i'm happily contend with watching her pee, dressing her up in sexy dresses then lifting up her skirt, peeping at her panties whilst she's ascending the stairs and smelling her used panties

[Janszoon]

Originally Posted by Il Duce

i'm happily contend with watching her pee, dressing her up in sexy dresses then lifting up her skirt, peeping at her panties whilst she's ascending the stairs and smelling her used panties

I have officially decided Il Duce is a character from an R. Crumb comic after reading this.

[Howard the Duck]

^^I'm part-Japanese, so i'm big on toilet/panty fetishes

[djchameleon]

Originally Posted by Il Duce

^^I'm part-Japanese, so i'm big on toilet/panty fetishes

have you ever bought used panties from those vending machines?

[Howard the Duck]

Originally Posted by djchameleon

have you ever bought used panties from those vending machines?

oh how I wished they had them here! Malaysia isn't exactly a very permissive society

[djchameleon]

Originally Posted by Il Duce

oh how I wished they had them here! Malaysia isn't exactly a very permissive society

I saw them on an episode of AOTS and CSI so I thought I'd ask about them but I wouldn't even venture near one of those machines willing.

Maybe you can take a trip to Tokyo one day and buy as much as you want. They probably have some websites or w/e with the vacuumed sealed ones.

[Scarlett O'Hara]

Originally Posted by djchameleon

Obviously I'm not a female but that question varies from girl to girl. I would believe. You can't really get a general consensus because every girl is different. Some enjoy sex more than others.

it all has to do with their sex drive level.

I also have come to believe that when women hit their sexual peak in their 30s that's when their sex drive increases as long as they don't have too many things in their life stressing them out.

Shoot, I'm done for, I am already a sex maniac at the moment (when I have a boyfriend I am). I actually was dumped once for wanting sex too often.

Originally Posted by mojopinuk

You think that girls who enjoy rape fantasies only do so because they don't realise how awful an experience actually being raped is?

This was sarcastic in some way, right?

Yeah that is rubbish, being raped in real life is my worst fear, but when it comes to rape fantasies - it's a huge turn on. Obviously it's not really rape, it's a guy not taking no for an answer, it's the huge force he has over you, you're powerless to stop him. Being so weak with his big strong body lunging into is a major panty wetter. All this talk is making me want sex soooo bad. It's been months!

Originally Posted by AwwSugar

If you're comfortable with the person, in love even, the experience can be amazing. It's the loss of control, the loss of the "Oh baby, did I hurt you?" And that all comes after, and it's 10x stronger than it is every other day. Nobody is joking about it or making light of it, I'm sure every girl with that fantasy is aware that what they're doing is not at all like what actually happens. As long as the girl isn't going around saying "Hahahaha I would love to be raped!" then there isn't really a problem.
Like I said, it can bring two people closer. I'm all about letting go, I'm all about getting close enough to a person when I love them or want to be with them that I can see and feel and know their innermost desires when we're having sex.

I totally agree with this. I have to be 100% comfortable with a person before I ask them to do it. But from the start I tell them I like it rough.

Originally Posted by Dirty

I don't really see how a rape fantasy differs all that much from really rough sex where the girl basically just lets the guy destroy her. Can someone who has done the rape fantasy thing explain to me how, or if, it really even differs from rough sex.

It differs because although rough sex is rough, the guy has been told to do it, whereas a rape sex is where the guy doesn't even let you speak, he pins you down and takes over you (not necessarily always rough) which would have been pre-planned.

[Howard the Duck]

Originally Posted by Il Duce

look it isn't even my idea of a good-time, it's hers - that's just because she was extremely violent with her ex, which nearly got to the point that she cut off his arm with a chopping knife (luckily it was dull) and she got off on that

she was also drunk-raped, apparently, but never reported it to the police and actually fell in love with the rapist - so I mean, women, huh? you figure them out

i'm happily contend with watching her pee, dressing her up in sexy dresses then lifting up her skirt, peeping at her panties whilst she's ascending the stairs and smelling her used panties

I have to clarify the hand-chopping part was a fight

and it's not that I don't get a kick from her rape fantasies myself - I just find it bizarre

[djchameleon]

Originally Posted by Vanilla

Shoot, I'm done for, I am already a sex maniac at the moment (when I have a boyfriend I am). I actually was dumped once for wanting sex too often.

Oh wtf? what a silly ass. how old was the guy? I know not everyone has the same sex drive but usually younger guys have super high sex drives. I know mines is super high.

Originally Posted by Vanilla

Yeah that is rubbish, being raped in real life is my worst fear, but when it comes to rape fantasies - it's a huge turn on. Obviously it's not really rape, it's a guy not taking no for an answer, it's the huge force he has over you, you're powerless to stop him. Being so weak with his big strong body lunging into is a major panty wetter. All this talk is making me want sex soooo bad. It's been months!

See , I just don't get that. Sure , I understand the rough sex part but if being raped in real life is your worst fear then why even role play it?

I'm always available but you'll have to hop on a plane and fly to New York

Originally Posted by Vanilla

It differs because although rough sex is rough, the guy has been told to do it, whereas a rape sex is where the guy doesn't even let you speak, he pins you down and takes over you (not necessarily always rough) which would have been pre-planned.

Rough sex doesn't have to be told to do it by a guy. All those things you are describing is rough sex to me and not rape sex. Rape sex seems more violent with clothes being ripped, holding a knife to your throat, some blood happen from the knife cutting your body. Blood being smeared in your face from that same cut. That in my opinion would be deemed rape sex.