Originally Posted by Roygbiv (Post 635888)

Those are the ones with no shame.

I have this thought that you have to have no shame to hit on someone at a pub.

Originally Posted by Veridical Fiction (Post 636018)

I agree with the above.
Except, if you're just out looking for a piece of ass, you're probably going to have better luck at a bar than in a library.

I don't walk around constantly looking for women to have a relationship with. But if I was, I definitely wouldn't do it in a bar.

Originally Posted by Vanilla (Post 636041)

I don't need to hit on anyone. I'm in the pub to dance and enjoy myself but often there is that part of it, depending on how many people are around. Back in the day yeah, but I've learned that you really don't meet anyone decent there.

Originally Posted by djchameleon (Post 636043)

True.....I don't walk around constantly looking for women to have a relationship with but you never know who will catch your eye and be a potential. I've always had more luck getting into a relationship when I was actively looking or pursuing. I think maybe I came off as desperate. I don't know.

Oh and don't you hate it when you just get into a relationship and then the opposite sex starts to notice you more and flirts with you more. I'm always like wtf....where were you like a week ago when I was still single!?

Originally Posted by djchameleon (Post 636043)

Oh and don't you hate it when you just get into a relationship and then the opposite sex starts to notice you more and flirts with you more. I'm always like wtf....where were you like a week ago when I was still single!?

Originally Posted by djchameleon (Post 636043)

True.....I don't walk around constantly looking for women to have a relationship with but you never know who will catch your eye and be a potential. I've always had more luck getting into a relationship when I was actively looking or pursuing. I think maybe I came off as desperate. I don't know.

Oh and don't you hate it when you just get into a relationship and then the opposite sex starts to notice you more and flirts with you more. I'm always like wtf....where were you like a week ago when I was still single!?



hehe girls would say that.....they go to the pub to dance but guys go to hit on girls that go to the pub/club to dance.

I used to always tease guys that say they are going to a club just to dance. I'm like wtf? are you ***? :laughing:

Originally Posted by GravitySlips (Post 636054)

I think most girls in clubs are at least in some way after guys too, rather than just being there to dance... at least in my experience. Depends the type of club too I guess, but you can tell when girls start dancing around you, very deliberately, what they're up to.

Originally Posted by Thrice (Post 636070)

The club is a place to find a **** buddy for the evening. Ladies dont lie and say you like to go dance. Its all BS. I went to the club once and it blew my mind, its pretty much skank central. I sat at the bar and got wasted. No offense to anyone.

Originally Posted by GravitySlips (Post 636073)

I think again it depends on the type of club (ie if it's some big DJ playing then maybe it's different) but as for your average clubnight, I mostly agree with you here.

Originally Posted by Vanilla (Post 636077)

You do realise that not all pubs are like that? I don't go to the sleezy student pubs I go to the up-market ones where you actually drink decent alcohol and catch up with people you havn't seen in ages.

So you're basically saying if a girl goes to a pub she's a ho? That doesn't make sense. What about guys? Do they just get away with being dirty sleezy ****s that only want a piece of meat for the night?

Originally Posted by Thrice (Post 636081)

No no no, Like a club. Big ass dance floor and a million people droppin e and grooving. I dont mean just girls, but alot of guys i know go there and come home with girls every night. Dudes are the same way. im all down to get kick it at a nice little pub or something, but having to pay to go inside is whack.

Originally Posted by Vanilla (Post 636096)

Ooo haha you should see how tiny the pubs are over here, put people still party really hard. Infact we'd probably drink a lot of different countries under the table!

Wow you actually have to pay to get inside over there?