In the interest of sparking some discussion, I can add that sex is nowhere as important to me now as it was some years ago. Man, when I was a teenager, I wanted it all the time. Now I'm happy as long as I get a little now and then - let's just say a lot less often - and if I had to choose a partner all over again, good sex wouldn't be anywhere as important a criteria as it would've been earlier in my life. I mean, if sex with a new partner wasn't that good, one could always figure out how to improve it in the future, right? Various qualities trickling into a kind of long-term happiness seems more important these days than instant gratification.

I feel kinda old for writing this though :(

I don't really believe in the concept of long term happiness to tell you the truth. My philosophy has always been to just enjoy things as they are before they start to suck.

I'm sure that pessimistic attitude will be of great help to you in the future :p:

I don't think that's pessimistic, it's just not overly optimistic. ;)

Hairy women? opinions.

Hmmm, japanese women are a bit hairy down there, but they trim it up a bit so it's not too terrible and it works in my opinion. I find that shaving the bikini line is a must as it's more of a personal maintenance thing like clipping nails, brushing teeth, ect.

I agree with this. I have always felt this way. I get that when people are younger especially, finding people to have sex with is more important than anything else but i have never felt this way. It annoys me when i hear some of my male friends discuss sex in this way and all their latest conquests like it were a sport or something. If thats whats important to some people then so be it but i've always been more interested in an actual relationship and sex, while still important, is a part of that relationship. If i'm not in a relationship, the lack of sexual activity isn't something i really give two shits about to be honest.

I don't care either way. As long as she shaves her legs, or doesn't have thick man hair on them.

Really? When I either don't have time to shave them or can't be arsed. I feel like a dirty pig for having hairy legs. :( What about hairy oaksters?

Oh, that's what you meant. I thought women shaving their legs was a given.