I might want a tongue piercing.
I can't imagine blowjobs being TOO much different.
But giving a girl oral might be weird.

How so? It's kind of enticing, but overall, if you don't even know what you're doing down there, the tongue ring won't help much. The most vivid detail I remember about getting head from a guy with a tongue ring is that it sort of caught on my clitoris every time he licked it. It was good, but again, I prefer an experienced tongue than a mere decoration with minor benefits. However, the hot/cold trick could be interesting because the metal. Good luck with your piercing!

Well I certainly know what I'm doing.
Which is why I wouldn't want the piercing to take away from that at all.

I'm sure it won't. I mean, you're going to have to allow time for healing, but that shouldn't take long. The tongue heals quickly! I didn't doubt that you didn't know what to do down there, by the way. After all, you do have a vagina. It baffles me when I encounter a female that performs cunnilingus poorly.

Hehe I know you didn't doubt me.
I didn't mean to sound defensive if I did.
But yeah, I suppose I'm just a little worried about the outcome.
Overall, I think it'd look good.
And I'm sure I could take it out if I didn't like it.

And I agree with you, it baffles me too.

While we're on the topic of cunnilingus and the vagina, any thoughts on female ejaculation? I've been trying to achieve it for almost two years now and no dice. I've tried hands, toys, tongue, EVERYTHING! Do some women just not do it, or all we all capable? And is it just piss?

Wow weird you brought that up...I'm reading a book book on the science behind sex and female ejaculate is nothing but plasma (as in...the stuff your red blood cells sit in...red blood cells + plasma = blood). It diffuses straight from your capillaries...and I haven't gotten much further than that in the book but it would make sense to me that if you were more anemic you would also have more ejaculate. This held true with my last girlfriend...


Wow that sounds really boring....I have to spice it up. Yay for boobies!

It's not just piss.
It's a mucus-y substance, I can look it up for you.
So many people tell me they hardly ***, but I used to come without having a full-out orgasm. I've experienced it with self-pleasuring and not usually sex with someone else.

This is what I found just now:

But before it was saying something else.
I'll keep searching.



Edit: If what duga says is true, it could be why I do so often. Cause I'm anemic. Maybe, maybe not.

^

It has been proven that it isn't glandular at all...hence the reason there is so much variation amongst girls.

Makes sense.
My friend was saying that she hardly ever comes at all.
And I didn't know which of us had a more "normal" reaction.