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Originally Posted by The Batlord (Post 1967672)

You can practice all you want but you can't even figure out what time signature I'm on.

*in.

Now you're getting it.

*on

He's changing hella fast. His videos don't even load.

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Originally Posted by OccultHawk (Post 1967627)

Try not to lose the following things:

Loving physical affection
Some social life
An income
Relationship with music and literature (for someone like you, at least)

Those are things that can leave a dangerous void

Sometimes these things can slip away. I’m not saying hold on at ALL cost just hold on best you can

My advice = Grain of salt (maybe)

These all hit home. We've been living together for 4 years and it feels like 20. Aside from work - which, we switch off every year and one person does a couple of semesters of school and the other takes on another job - we pretty much only ever hang out with each other at home. I'm used to having a lot of alone time and it can be really hard to share space. We enjoy each other's company but he's too needy and I'm too distant. I feel like I've lost a lot of myself to this relationship and I think that's the crux of the problem.

Tl;Dr I need to get out more.

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Originally Posted by Kiiii (Post 1967629)

Probably not the same thing but my last relationship ended almost a year after the last time there was any sex involved. I know it's sad.

Yeah it hasn't come to that, fortunately. It's definitely not as frequent as either of us would like, but I try to make up for it in other ways. It's just been a while since it's been good.

Yeah, it had been a few weeks, then it became a few months, then well...I slept in the living room for a while. But hey. Things happen. Coincidentally, I also lost my social life in my last relationship and it sucked. So I'd definitely recommend what Hawk says about the social life thing.

Looks like my dry spell is going to come to an end soon. It's nice because she already told me unprompted that she wants it to be casual which is something I need it to be. I don't have the energy or patience for a relationship right now. So it's nice it's just going to be a "netflix and chill" type deal like the kids say.

Did you bond over a mutual love of Mumford and Sons?

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Originally Posted by 66Sexy (Post 1994785)

Did you bond over a mutual love of Mumford and Sons?

I think you're mistaking me for JTF dude.

Bats just sad he's not getting any.

Well...I mean, I'm not either.

Man...I'm on the same level as Bat. I'm depressed.

Have had some form of sex in at least a half dozen different cars.

Car sex is cool. *said in a Ricardo Montalban voice*