The Sexual Experience Thread

[WWWP]

Originally Posted by Sequoioideae

So, the girl I've been seeing and talking to the past 3 months fooled around and now she refuses to talk to me on the fact that she thinks I just wanted to **** her. I'm so confused, her and I have opened up and talked about everything, and when she came over and we started kissing it just kind of happened so fast. I stopped when she said "We need to chill", but apparently I just wanted her for her body. I've spent countless hours talking to this person on the phone, constantly texting them, supporting them, and trying to be there for them. I'm just a piece of shit asshole I guess. I followed back on how I felt, and that I was sorry it got that far, but she went on a rant about how guys just wanted to **** around with her and that she wasn't some ****toy. No, ****ing NO! Everything I did up until that point EVERYTHING I DID was because I liked her and loved her art, hanging out with her, and playing guitar with her. Now I'm just some nasty pervert who isn't worth her time. Am I really not capable of being loved? Am I really a bad person? I guess so, I guess I'm just going to forever be a broken piece of **** person.

Did you tell her that?

[DwnWthVwls]

Pretty much agree with everyone else. She's probably just not interested and went about it in a dramatic way, or she's got some issues she hasn't told you about that she needs to work out.

Leave her alone if she asked you to. Don't be one of those guys.

[fiddler]

Originally Posted by DwnWthVwls

Pretty much agree with everyone else. She's probably just not interested and went about it in a dramatic way, or she's got some issues she hasn't told you about that she needs to work out.

Leave her alone if she asked you to. Don't be one of those guys.

^ this. If she's not interested she's not interested. Don't be one of "those" guys...you know the ones who gets arrested for sexual harassment? Those? Don't be like that.

Rejection sucks, sure, just strap up your boots and move on.

[The Batlord]

Originally Posted by wolverinewolfweiselpigeon

Did you tell her that?

I think once she hit "ALL MEN WANT IS SEX!" then telling her anything was probably pointless.

[John Wilkes Booth]

i agree with the cop and the scientist

[The Batlord]

But if he doesn't show up outside her house with a boombox, then how will she know he loves her?

[Sequoioideae]

Originally Posted by wolverinewolfweiselpigeon

Did you tell her that?

Yeah, I spilled how I felt about her and why, but I'm just a pos not worth anyone's time or love.
And to everyone thinking I would be one of those guys that harasses women over these kind of situations, no, ****ing no. I've been cutting off everyone in my life right now. I'm tired of hurting people, so I'm just going to retreat back into my shell and cut off all my friends so I don't do this again.

[FRED HALE SR.]

Originally Posted by Sequoioideae

Yeah, I spilled how I felt about her and why, but I'm just a pos not worth anyone's time or love.
And to everyone thinking I would be one of those guys that harasses women over these kind of situations, no, ****ing no. I've been cutting off everyone in my life right now. I'm tired of hurting people, so I'm just going to retreat back into my shell and cut off all my friends so I don't do this again.

She sounds like someone thats very hot or cold to me. You may have vibed with her, but it sounds like she has issues with relationships so perhaps its for the best that she was honest with her feelings. I can't fathom how making out with her was hurtful to her. You just need to find that one thats gonna give herself to you completely. Don't retreat and go into a shell, its just one of lifes little lessons. I've been tore up over many a females in my life and it never does any good to retreat and distance yourself. Get back on the bike and keep riding. You are gonna be a superstar to someone, you're unique and original so ride it out.

[John Wilkes Booth]

Originally Posted by Sequoioideae

Yeah, I spilled how I felt about her and why, but I'm just a pos not worth anyone's time or love.
And to everyone thinking I would be one of those guys that harasses women over these kind of situations, no, ****ing no. I've been cutting off everyone in my life right now. I'm tired of hurting people, so I'm just going to retreat back into my shell and cut off all my friends so I don't do this again.

i don't know you so obviously my judgement of you is based on just reading a few posts of yours here and there... but based on what you've said i'm guessing you didn't actually hurt her she just wasn't into it anymore and honestly took a pretty bitchy way to back out of it but yea... it is what it is. you can't beat yourself up over these women man. doesn't solve anything really and women don't want to hear a guy go on about how he's not worth anything etc etc... really you need to learn to stand your ground and call a woman out on her bull****, if anything. and have a bit of confidence in yourself cause you can't do **** otherwise.

[The Batlord]

Originally Posted by Sequoioideae

Yeah, I spilled how I felt about her and why, but I'm just a pos not worth anyone's time or love.
And to everyone thinking I would be one of those guys that harasses women over these kind of situations, no, ****ing no. I've been cutting off everyone in my life right now. I'm tired of hurting people, so I'm just going to retreat back into my shell and cut off all my friends so I don't do this again.

My instinct as a good ol' Irish Catholic boy, with good ol' Irish Catholic, Libertarian family members, is to just tell you to suck it up and quit bitching so much about yourself, but I know that doesn't help and just makes you feel like an *******. But whatever the words, you really do need to stop all that. It's poison.

I'd see about some medication. Seriously. I don't mean get doped up to the gills on Thorazine or whatever, but just talk to a doctor for a half hour (doesn't even have to be a psychiatrist), and get you a little something to take the edge off the spirals of negative thoughts. You'd be surprised what a little pill can do for that, and how stopping those thoughts can help. It won't "fix" you or anything, not by itself at least, but it might make the days go by without any suicidal ideation (assuming you're into that).