I don't mind it but I feel nothing pleasurable. If only. I've had butt sex so it's not like much grosses me out (just poop and golden showers).

If a girl is not getting pleasure from cunnilingus it only means that the guy is not doing it right. Even some of the guys I've seen do it in porn have it all wrong.

I truly mourn for girls who don't/haven't experienced that kind of heaven.

Maybe you just don't have a very sensitive clit and get way better g-spot orgasms? I've read and heard that some women have hyper sensitive clits so I assume the opposite could also be possible. All the chicks I've been with have been about the same so I really have no reference point.

Edit: O FFS filter.. how is clit okay but the plural is blocked. Fuck you!

that's what i was thinking too. kind of confusing that you could feel nothing. unless... were you born in an islamic country by any chance?

I think I'm going to write a 10 step guide handbook.

Not to speak for vanilla or imply this is her experience, but I know that personally, as well as in the experience of close friends, it takes a while when exploring your sexuality to recognize what feels good to you and how to use that to your advantage. I've had people go down on me for years and am only just recently able to *** (and actually that goes for more than just orally focused orgasms).

It takes more than just a skillful dude to make a lady squirm right.

fair point. i know i saw some study that said there is a good portion of the female population that either can't *** or have a hard time cumming at all. but this was in regard to normal sex. from what i remember it had something to do with where the clit was.. if it was in the right place then the friction from the penetration would stimulate it but if it was too far away or something then it didn't work. something like that... i can't remember exactly and can't be bothered to look it up again. but yea that has to suck for those women.

for me, it takes a lot of work to make me *** as well. i always assumed i jerked off too much as a kid or something but basically it takes a while for me if i'm with a chick. if i'm by myself i can get the job done in 3 minutes flat, like one of those nascar teams.

Yeah I've read similar things. What a bummer.

It helps in some cases if the woman also pleasures herself while she's having intercourse.