The Sexual Experience Thread

[ribbons]

The answer is No. Marriage can be challenging enough as it is without you coming along as an interloper. It’s selfish and reflects a lack of empathy for others. If the married person is troubled, unhappily married or bored, that’s for them to work out with their spouse or on their own. If you are looking for a relationship, go find your own person – a single person – to be happy with.

[Scarlett O'Hara]

Originally Posted by ribbons

The answer is No. Marriage can be challenging enough as it is without you coming along as an interloper. It’s selfish and reflects a lack of empathy for others. If the married person is troubled, unhappily married or bored, that’s for them to work out with their spouse or on their own. If you are looking for a relationship, go find your own person – a single person – to be happy with.

Ribbons!!!

[John Wilkes Booth]

Originally Posted by WhateverDude

I feel like the question posed leaves out those who voluntarily have open marriages. It's not like there's only one way to get married.

Anyways, in a more traditional case I guess I would under certain circumstances. For a quick fling or onenighter nah... there are others out there who, like FD already said, don't come with the same risk of drama. But if I developed a loving relationship with someone who became disinterested or whatever in their spouse then sure, I'd sleep with them.

see you're the opposite of me. if i had serious feelings and they felt it back i would feel like ****, you better make a choice then. but if it's just a fling tbh i don't really concern myself with whatever their situation is. partially lazy and partially just amoral but it is what it is. the way i look at it is the only relationship i'm obligated to try to maintain is one that i enter into myself. not responsible for other people's wife's decisions or feelings.

speaking of open marriages though i feel like if i could find a chick who i really was into who would agree to that ****, then i probably could maintain a lasting relationship. but these southern women bore me man they are way too prudish.. i'm disappointed cause everybody always told me that it was those country girls that were the real freaks but it seems all the girls here are on some biblical monogamy nuclear family ****.

[GuD]

Oh yeah it would definitely at some point come to either me or them. I'm not saying I'd be a sneak about it, just that I'd pursue the relationship if I knew that's what the other person wanted too.

[The Batlord]

Originally Posted by ribbons

The answer is No. Marriage can be challenging enough as it is without you coming along as an interloper. It’s selfish and reflects a lack of empathy for others. If the married person is troubled, unhappily married or bored, that’s for them to work out with their spouse or on their own. If you are looking for a relationship, go find your own person – a single person – to be happy with.

Hey, man, it's like natural selection and ****. If your marriage can't survive my sweet, sweet lovin', then perhaps you're just not meant to be. I mean, isn't that something you want to know? I'm doing YOU a favor by plowing your wife. You should be grateful, damn it!

[ladyislingering]

Every so often strangers grab my hair or accidentally brush elbows with me.

It's really the most physical action I ever get.

[Chula Vista]

Originally Posted by The Batlord

You should be grateful, damn it!

Thank god you weren't prowling in Methuen back in 1986....

[Chula Vista]

Originally Posted by ladyislingering

Every so often strangers grab my hair.

*raises hand*

[Freebase Dali]

Originally Posted by Chula Vista

Me and my wife separated for about 3 months way back in 1986. I had a very early mid life crisis.

Those were 90 days of total debauchery.

(she made me crawl back on my knees for what it's worth)

I'm interested in your story. Do tell.

[ladyislingering]

I have also occasionally made eye contact with well-dressed older men.