lol frightenly similar to the situation i had.

i reacted like him too, right away i was against the idea but my initial reaction to it wasn't as nice as him, my first reaction was a homophobic "What? why?? why do you want to that to me!?"

i didn't plan on saying it so judgmental but that's how it came out at first. later i started thinking perhaps it's not the worst thing in the world to get ****ed with a strap on.

We never went through it but just talking about the possibility of doing it freaked me out a bit.

It's not homophobic to be against having your rear end pounded mate.

Yea but it's also a little unfair i get to stick it in her rear end but she can't do the same. (thankfully she never used this argument against me)
In this case compromise came in the shape of a strap on. :p:

It's not unfair, you should never do something that you are not comfortable doing, and your partner should understand that. She shouldn't feel obligated to let you stick it in her rear either.

I wouldn't be sexually satisfied at all if I knew my partner did something she hated just to please me. I want her to be enjoying herself while giving. It's nice to think a partner would be willing to do something they dislike to please you. The willingness is enough for me without the act.

Unless it's your birthday of course.

Pot cookie + oral = :)

Pot plus sex = :D ;)

Or realistically:

Pot = sex.

My SO wants to watch porn together tonight. Have to admit I'm nervous about showing him what I'm into...

Any experiences you MBers wish to share regarding this?

If he ain't into whatever tickles your fancy, then he ain't the guy for you.

That's like saying that if he doesn't like the same pizza toppings then you should break up.