The Sexual Experience Thread

**Scarlett O'Hara** · 07-11-2014, 11:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Franco Pepe Kalle

please Vanilla, you have a big mouth. You express yourself clear net. Most of us understand your words.

You really hit on the head there Franco. I'm louder in real life though.

GuD · 07-13-2014, 07:57 PM

I'm planning on going out tonight to a gay bar about 10 minutes away and trying to meet a decent dude to hop in a bed with. Nervous as hell. I've been almost blown by another dude, I've had my dick in another dude's ass for barely 5 minutes before bailing. I don't know what to do really, I'm not a sexually confident person at all but this confusion has had me pent up and anxious for too damn long. I know I like women, so there's solace in that at least.

I guess I'm worried that like every other time I've tried to hook up with a guy I'm just gonna end up meeting a bunch of old creeps that are only interested because I look young and I'm just so not down with being some creepy guy's boytoy. Fvck off with that ****, I can't understand why dudes would expect me to be okay with that. I hope I've never come across that way to somebody because goddamn that ****'s annoying as hell.

GuD · 07-13-2014, 07:57 PM

I'm just kinda rambling to get the anxiety out...

The Batlord · 07-13-2014, 08:18 PM

Just keep in mind that you're about to find out if the whole myth about gay guys giving better BJ's than girls is actually a thing.

GuD · 07-13-2014, 08:54 PM

I'm gettin cold feet man. I'm not really horny at all, just having a bit of an identity crisis. I'm wondering if I should hold off until I'm really in the mood to get busy instead of looking for an answer in an experience I've had before and walked away with nothing from. This is how I felt the last time I tried to shack up with a guy so... yeah

Rjinn · 07-13-2014, 09:02 PM

To me, it doesn't really sound like you're into men... I don't think forcing yourself is the way to go. Just sayin'...

GuD · 07-13-2014, 09:11 PM

I go through this with women too. I'm just a very anxious person and have to force myself to do anything when it comes to sex/relationships blablaba. I respond to both men and women in the same ways and find myself equally attracted to both. Not that it's saying much but I've just never felt as secure around a man as a woman.

Rjinn · 07-13-2014, 09:32 PM

Why are you forcing yourself though? I'm honestly asking out of concern. In my experience, every time I've forced myself into a sexual encounter it's turned out terrible. Perhaps take some time to deal with anxiety and what's holding you back? Best of luck.

~~Sansa Stark~~ · 07-13-2014, 10:03 PM

Don't forget condoms

that's all I gotta say

also sexuality is pretty fluid. Sometimes I'm gayer than others, other times I only want dudes.

bisexuality ftw

so don't expect yourself to just be one way or the other, its totally cool to feel either way (or no way at all)

The Batlord · 07-13-2014, 10:17 PM

Yeah, and I definitely understand the stress of wondering just what your sexuality is, but seriously, once you've got some kind of a handle on it the details don't really matter. However bi or hetero I might be doesn't really concern me. What happens happens, and what gets shoved up my ass gets shoved up my ass. You shouldn't need to feel like you absolutely, positively need to know for the sake of your sanity. Figure yourself out, but you don't need to take it so seriously that you drive yourself crazy. I mean honestly, now that I'm comfortable with it, my sexuality is kind of a boring topic to me. I'm far more concerned with actually attaining ass than worrying about which ass I'm trying to attain.

TL;DR Get some ass, but make sure you're having fun, otherwise what's the point?

07-13-2014, 07:57 PM	#10332 (permalink)
GuD Dude... What? Join Date: Oct 2013 Posts: 1,322	I'm planning on going out tonight to a gay bar about 10 minutes away and trying to meet a decent dude to hop in a bed with. Nervous as hell. I've been almost blown by another dude, I've had my dick in another dude's ass for barely 5 minutes before bailing. I don't know what to do really, I'm not a sexually confident person at all but this confusion has had me pent up and anxious for too damn long. I know I like women, so there's solace in that at least. I guess I'm worried that like every other time I've tried to hook up with a guy I'm just gonna end up meeting a bunch of old creeps that are only interested because I look young and I'm just so not down with being some creepy guy's boytoy. Fvck off with that **, I can't understand why dudes would expect me to be okay with that. I hope I've never come across that way to somebody because goddamn that **'s annoying as hell. __________________ I spit bullets in my feet Every time I speak So I write instead And still people want me dead ~msc

07-13-2014, 07:57 PM	#10333 (permalink)
GuD Dude... What? Join Date: Oct 2013 Posts: 1,322	I'm just kinda rambling to get the anxiety out... __________________ I spit bullets in my feet Every time I speak So I write instead And still people want me dead ~msc

07-13-2014, 08:54 PM	#10335 (permalink)
GuD Dude... What? Join Date: Oct 2013 Posts: 1,322	I'm gettin cold feet man. I'm not really horny at all, just having a bit of an identity crisis. I'm wondering if I should hold off until I'm really in the mood to get busy instead of looking for an answer in an experience I've had before and walked away with nothing from. This is how I felt the last time I tried to shack up with a guy so... yeah __________________ I spit bullets in my feet Every time I speak So I write instead And still people want me dead ~msc

07-13-2014, 09:02 PM	#10336 (permalink)
Rjinn The Aerosol in your Soul Join Date: Jun 2012 Location: New South Wales, Australia Posts: 1,546	To me, it doesn't really sound like you're into men... I don't think forcing yourself is the way to go. Just sayin'... __________________ last.fm

07-13-2014, 09:11 PM	#10337 (permalink)
GuD Dude... What? Join Date: Oct 2013 Posts: 1,322	I go through this with women too. I'm just a very anxious person and have to force myself to do anything when it comes to sex/relationships blablaba. I respond to both men and women in the same ways and find myself equally attracted to both. Not that it's saying much but I've just never felt as secure around a man as a woman. __________________ I spit bullets in my feet Every time I speak So I write instead And still people want me dead ~msc

07-13-2014, 09:32 PM	#10338 (permalink)
Rjinn The Aerosol in your Soul Join Date: Jun 2012 Location: New South Wales, Australia Posts: 1,546	Why are you forcing yourself though? I'm honestly asking out of concern. In my experience, every time I've forced myself into a sexual encounter it's turned out terrible. Perhaps take some time to deal with anxiety and what's holding you back? Best of luck. __________________ last.fm

07-13-2014, 10:03 PM	#10339 (permalink)
~~Sansa Stark~~ Account Disabled Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: The Eyrie, Vale of Arryn, Westeros Posts: 3,234	Don't forget condoms that's all I gotta say also sexuality is pretty fluid. Sometimes I'm gayer than others, other times I only want dudes. bisexuality ftw so don't expect yourself to just be one way or the other, its totally cool to feel either way (or no way at all)