Advice thread

[James]

Originally Posted by s_k

You might want to click the link mate. It's linking to a posting in which I tell how I usually tell my female friends what I feel for them.


Well maybe I'm looking too far into these things, but if you were to ask me I'd say you're friggin' blind.
Anyway, if stuff keeps going at this rate you won't have to ask anything. Seems this is heading in the right direction anyways. Just keep in touch, make clear you're interested in her person and it should work out just fine.

Haha, sorry. Didn't think to click it we're both virgins so I can't be like "Let's have sex" but I might drop some hints in the future. I hope it works out, i think we'd be great together.

[Dirty]

Originally Posted by James

You told me to read a thread about sexual orientation?

Anyway guys, what do you take from this kind of jokish thing like what happened today....
We both had a geography exam and when I got out she was standing outside with her friend. I walk past and she calls me back.
Her:You're just going to walk past without asking how my exam went and hugging me?
Me:Oops, sorry. How'd it go.
Her:It was okay thanks, what about you?
Me:Same, I think I did alright.
Her:Oh you have a loose thread on your jumper *reaches down and grabs it*
Me:Oh I know, I need to give it a cut
Her:You know anyone behind us is going to think I am playing with your cock
Her friend:That's probably what you want them to think, actually that's probably what you want to do
Her:Obviously, haha.
Me:*laughs* bye *leaves*

Is that flirty? Or am I looking too far into these things?

jesus christ james she's trying to give you keys to the jet ski's, DO YOU NOT WANT TO RIDE THE FUCKIN WAVES??

you gotta be flirty back, dont be so nervous about it, you shoulda said something like 'if you insist' and pulled down your zipper a little bit like you were gonna whip it out. just have fun with moments like that, they aren't serious, just make everything a joke and go along with stuff like that. if shes joking around like that it cant be a bad thing for you. just be sarcastic and funny and throw those wavelengths back her way sometimes

[s_k]

Originally Posted by James

Haha, sorry. Didn't think to click it we're both virgins so I can't be like "Let's have sex" but I might drop some hints in the future. I hope it works out, i think we'd be great together.

Nah, don't go for 'let's have sex', just go for 'care to bake pancakes with me this evening?' or anything not suggestive .

Anyway, I think it's definitely safe to say she's interested in 'that way' in you.

[James]

Originally Posted by Dirty

jesus christ james she's trying to give you keys to the jet ski's, DO YOU NOT WANT TO RIDE THE FUCKIN WAVES??

hing:you gotta be flirty back, dont be so nervous about it, you shoulda said something like 'if you insist' and pulled down your zipper a little bit like you were gonna whip it out. just have fun with moments like that, they aren't serious, just make everything a joke and go along with stuff like that. if shes joking around like that it cant be a bad thing for you. just be sarcastic and funny and throw those wavelengths back her way sometimes

I'm gonna make a move for sure, just when, where and how is the thing.

[Bloozcrooz]

Originally Posted by Dirty

jesus christ james she's trying to give you keys to the jet ski's, DO YOU NOT WANT TO RIDE THE FUCKIN WAVES??

you gotta be flirty back, dont be so nervous about it, you shoulda said something like 'if you insist' and pulled down your zipper a little bit like you were gonna whip it out. just have fun with moments like that, they aren't serious, just make everything a joke and go along with stuff like that. if shes joking around like that it cant be a bad thing for you. just be sarcastic and funny and throw those wavelengths back her way sometimes

Guys I think he maybe a lil torn here in all fairness. You got Sk linking him to his friend zone personal journal of "gone with the wind..the Sk approach" Then Dirty telling him to unzip his pants...poor guy.

F*cking pancakes? Really man? Has that actually worked for you?

[James]

Originally Posted by Boozinbloozin

Guys I think he maybe a lil torn here in all fairness. You got Sk linking him to his friend zone personal journal of "gone with the wind..the Sk approach" Then Dirty telling him to unzip his pants...poor guy.

Yes! This is very true! They're like opposites!

[s_k]

Hahaha, well all he asked was how to tell a girl what he felt.
He didn't ask 'how do I get a girl to have sex with me'.
I mean, even I would to the dirty approach in that situation .
My idea works when you're in a conversation anyway, obviously .

[djchameleon]

Originally Posted by James

Yes! This is very true! They're like opposites!

exactly that's why I said it ultimately comes down to you and how you feel at the moment.

Yes, it's nice to hear advice from others but you should go with your gut feeling and just do what feels right.

Things that work for others might not work for you and vice versa.

[Dirty]

james do not listen to s_k, this man will lead you down a 10 year road of hugs and i will lead you to a wonderful life of great sex and a wonderful family with this girl

im seriously just saying dont take it real serious and be loose with it and joke back when stuff like that happens

[FRED HALE SR.]

Originally Posted by Dirty

james do not listen to s_k, this man will lead you down a 10 year road of hugs and i will lead you to a wonderful life of great sex and a wonderful family with this girl

im seriously just saying dont take it real serious and be loose with it and joke back when stuff like that happens

I don't know James, this guys already talking families and ****. I would have definitely gone down the whip it out road myself, she clearly was telling you make a move and stop dancing around my vagina. Lay it out for her, tell her you wanna spend the night with her vagina and get it over with.