Advice thread

~~Farfisa~~ · 05-24-2011, 11:19 AM

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Originally Posted by James

Yes! This is very true! They're like opposites!

In all fairness James, it does sound like she digs you that way. Just ask her out, man.

~~James~~ · 05-24-2011, 11:23 AM

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Originally Posted by loose_lips_sink_ships

In all fairness James, it does sound like she digs you that way. Just ask her out, man.

I will, after her exams are over I guess. Just cautious, I don't want to lose her as a friend.

FRED HALE SR. · 05-24-2011, 11:32 AM

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Originally Posted by James

I will, after her exams are over I guess. Just cautious, I don't want to lose her as a friend.

Cautious is no way to go through life. You'll look back on many things with regret. Your friendship really wasn't that strong if it couldn't handle natural feelings that happen between a man and a woman. You guess? Do it today. Call her up and just do it. Your making it too hard with the I guess's and i don't wanna lose her. You either want to be with her or you don't. There is no in between and there is certainly nothing bad that will come from revealing your feelings. Positive thinking will always get you where your intending to go.

~~James~~ · 05-24-2011, 11:45 AM

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Originally Posted by FRED HALE SR.

Cautious is no way to go through life. You'll look back on many things with regret. Your friendship really wasn't that strong if it couldn't handle natural feelings that happen between a man and a woman. You guess? Do it today. Call her up and just do it. Your making it too hard with the I guess's and i don't wanna lose her. You either want to be with her or you don't. There is no in between and there is certainly nothing bad that will come from revealing your feelings. Positive thinking will always get you where your intending to go.

I can't throw it on her during the most important exams of her life!

FRED HALE SR. · 05-24-2011, 11:51 AM

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Originally Posted by James

I can't throw it on her during the most important exams of her life!

Of course you can. Help take her mind off the studies. I think your terrified to do it honestly. Step outside yourself and call her right now and tell her how you feel. Its really that simple. Otherwise its gonna be next year and on and on and on. What happens if another guy approaches her while you wait and hooks it up? Go in guns blazing and steal that kiss already.

~~Farfisa~~ · 05-24-2011, 11:57 AM

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Originally Posted by FRED HALE SR.

Of course you can. Help take her mind off the studies. I think your terrified to do it honestly. Step outside yourself and call her right now and tell her how you feel. Its really that simple. Otherwise its gonna be next year and on and on and on. What happens if another guy approaches her while you wait and hooks it up? Go in guns blazing and steal that kiss already.

This man, this.

~~James~~ · 05-24-2011, 12:04 PM

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Originally Posted by loose_lips_sink_ships

This man, this.

They end in 4 days time. I can wait.

duga · 05-24-2011, 12:10 PM

She would probably like it if you did it now. You can even work it into the whole approach. "I was going to wait until after finals...but I can't..."

I've found with 90% of the girls I've dated they want to be CHASED. The hard to get thing is completely real. Ask her out...she might say maybe...she might even say no. If you really like her and you get one of those responses, ask her again a few days later. My rule is 3 strikes you are out. If a girl denies me 3 times, then either she really doesn't want to date me or she ****ed up big time.

Nosferatu Man · 05-24-2011, 12:10 PM

I havent been involved in this conversation at all but reading what she said to you, you should be sweet man. Just ask her out for a drink or something similar relax and then instead of saying good night just kiss her.

~~Dirty~~ · 05-24-2011, 09:44 PM

ok about the 'pulling your zipper down and pretending to get your cock out' comment, I was actually serious about that, I just wanted to clear that up. I meant like in a joking way do that, not actually do it, then be like "ok im getting a boner, ill see you two later" and walk off laughing on a high note.

My advice is to NOT ask her out in some formal type of way. Just be like 'you seems stressed out' and then she'll say 'omg i know, these exams are so stressful!' and that's when knight in shining armor James comes in and says CASUALLY AND NOT NERVOUSLY 'yea you need to get your mind off the exams, lets go get ice cream or somethin.'

Also, be prepared so if she says yes you already have a time and date picked out. Just so you can say 'lets hit up (ice cream place or wherever) friday at like 7:30.' also be prepared if she says no so you dont view it as the end of the world. Even if she says no, be casual and be like 'you're so lame, who would ever turn down free chocolate ice cream' but say it in a light hearted way, not serious. If anyone is gonna put the nail in the coffin, let it be her and not of your own doing

05-24-2011, 12:10 PM	#98 (permalink)
duga MB quadrant's JM Vincent Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Washington, DC Posts: 3,762	She would probably like it if you did it now. You can even work it into the whole approach. "I was going to wait until after finals...but I can't..." I've found with 90% of the girls I've dated they want to be CHASED. The hard to get thing is completely real. Ask her out...she might say maybe...she might even say no. If you really like her and you get one of those responses, ask her again a few days later. My rule is 3 strikes you are out. If a girl denies me 3 times, then either she really doesn't want to date me or she ****ed up big time. __________________ Confusion will be my epitaph...

05-24-2011, 12:10 PM	#99 (permalink)
Nosferatu Man Music Addict Join Date: Mar 2011 Posts: 264	I havent been involved in this conversation at all but reading what she said to you, you should be sweet man. Just ask her out for a drink or something similar relax and then instead of saying good night just kiss her. __________________ Wild men who caught and sang the sun in flight, And learn, too late, they grieved it on its way, Do not go gentle into that good night.

05-24-2011, 09:44 PM	#100 (permalink)
~~Dirty~~ Account Disabled Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: USA Posts: 981	ok about the 'pulling your zipper down and pretending to get your cock out' comment, I was actually serious about that, I just wanted to clear that up. I meant like in a joking way do that, not actually do it, then be like "ok im getting a boner, ill see you two later" and walk off laughing on a high note. My advice is to NOT ask her out in some formal type of way. Just be like 'you seems stressed out' and then she'll say 'omg i know, these exams are so stressful!' and that's when knight in shining armor James comes in and says CASUALLY AND NOT NERVOUSLY 'yea you need to get your mind off the exams, lets go get ice cream or somethin.' Also, be prepared so if she says yes you already have a time and date picked out. Just so you can say 'lets hit up (ice cream place or wherever) friday at like 7:30.' also be prepared if she says no so you dont view it as the end of the world. Even if she says no, be casual and be like 'you're so lame, who would ever turn down free chocolate ice cream' but say it in a light hearted way, not serious. If anyone is gonna put the nail in the coffin, let it be her and not of your own doing