What would you do? (member, quote, Hang)

savannah · 03-12-2009, 05:53 PM

chances are if she's talkin to someone in a way that would negatively affect your relationship you would know that there's a problem with your relationship

Schredds · 03-12-2009, 05:55 PM

A man should trust the woman he is with and if he doesnt then he shouldnt be with her, plain and simple, if he has any sort of a hunch or gut feeling about something or things seems weird and out of the ordinary he should confront her straight up and ask what the deal is. I personally wouldnt put up with that, it might not be the right way to deal with it but from what ive seen happen to friends of mine and happen to myself as well, I dont put up with any shaddy **** like that, IMO if shes hiding something chances are it isnt anthing that could benefit you, and if she had any respect she would say what is going on weather its good or bad. If my girl was being all sneaky texting and hanging out with some other dude Id tell her to hit the road, straight up.

Freebase Dali · 03-12-2009, 06:41 PM

To figure out if she's cheating on you, you only have to catch her banging another guy.
If she's banging another woman, then it's only cheating if you're not in on it.

Simple.

Schredds · 03-12-2009, 06:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Veridical Fiction

To figure out if she's cheating on you, you only have to catch her banging another guy.
If she's banging another woman, then it's only cheating if you're not in on it.

Simple.

wtf kind of advice is that???????

Freebase Dali · 03-12-2009, 07:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Schredds

wtf kind of advice is that???????

The only kind that's guaranteed to work.

TheBig3 · 03-12-2009, 07:25 PM

How old are you? if you're not 40 toss her.

Schredds · 03-12-2009, 07:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Veridical Fiction

The only kind that's guaranteed to work.

Hahaahaha

Schredds · 03-12-2009, 07:27 PM

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Originally Posted by TheBig3KilledMyRainDog

How old are you? if you're not 40 toss her.

**** bro if he IS 40 Id say toss her!

Freebase Dali · 03-12-2009, 07:29 PM

Nah. The general rule is:
If you're forty and beyond, regardless of the state of your relationship, if your girl is thirty or below, you only break it off if you're no longer getting any ass from her.

Everything else is secondary.

mr dave · 03-12-2009, 07:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Schredds

A man should trust the woman he is with and if he doesnt then he shouldnt be with her, plain and simple,

yes. absolutely.

if you don't trust your partner then the issue is on your shoulders, if she doesn't respect your trust then the issue is hers, and vice versa.

either way both of those conditions need to be met by each individual in order for a relationship to have ANY lasting worth.

immature jr. high drama BS only has a place in jr. high.

03-12-2009, 05:53 PM	#11 (permalink)
savannah afrocentric Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: texas Posts: 753	chances are if she's talkin to someone in a way that would negatively affect your relationship you would know that there's a problem with your relationship __________________ i changed my mind; i changed my mind;now i'm feeling different all that time, wasted i wish i was a little more delicate i wish my i wish my i wish my i wish my i wish my name was clementine - sarah jaffe

03-12-2009, 07:25 PM	#16 (permalink)
TheBig3 killedmyraindog Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: Boston, Massachusetts Posts: 11,172	How old are you? if you're not 40 toss her. __________________ I've moved to a new address

03-12-2009, 05:55 PM	#12 (permalink)
Schredds Special K Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Vancouver, BC Posts: 198	A man should trust the woman he is with and if he doesnt then he shouldnt be with her, plain and simple, if he has any sort of a hunch or gut feeling about something or things seems weird and out of the ordinary he should confront her straight up and ask what the deal is. I personally wouldnt put up with that, it might not be the right way to deal with it but from what ive seen happen to friends of mine and happen to myself as well, I dont put up with any shaddy **** like that, IMO if shes hiding something chances are it isnt anthing that could benefit you, and if she had any respect she would say what is going on weather its good or bad. If my girl was being all sneaky texting and hanging out with some other dude Id tell her to hit the road, straight up.

03-12-2009, 06:41 PM	#13 (permalink)
Freebase Dali Partying on the inside Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 5,584	To figure out if she's cheating on you, you only have to catch her banging another guy. If she's banging another woman, then it's only cheating if you're not in on it. Simple.

03-12-2009, 07:29 PM	#19 (permalink)
Freebase Dali Partying on the inside Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 5,584	Nah. The general rule is: If you're forty and beyond, regardless of the state of your relationship, if your girl is thirty or below, you only break it off if you're no longer getting any ass from her. Everything else is secondary.