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View Poll Results: Hey. Did you just grab my ass?
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Old 02-02-2012, 03:34 PM   #9451 (permalink)
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Thanks duga that is some really good and highly relevant wisdom. I never really thought about how the fact I have never REALLY been in love yet as being a big hole in my maturity. But can kind of see what you mean. There is a girl I met a few weeks ago that I am starting to get some of those vibes from. Like feeling at ease and having your personality validated by some one who you validate. I should really see what would happen between us. I never really considered it before because my ego was telling me "I could do better" but really it does not actually matter at all. I think she is cute and she is a lot like me.

All my other experiences with girls have been quite shallow now that I think about it. I remember thinking that sex would change a lot of that but it never really did.
I've never felt anything more for men than 'fancying' a guy. Which makes me feel like I'm missing out on alot because I've never really cared for someone or been anywhere near being in love. I'm fussy. I feel like I always find faults with men when I don't want to but something always puts me off them and all I think after that is "creep" yet I'm too nice to let them down so it ends in copious amounts of arguements meanwhile I push them further away. I feel like people I'm actually interested in never have a mutual feeling and people that are interested in me are all ****ing genuine weirdos. It's a load of pish.
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Old 02-02-2012, 04:53 PM   #9452 (permalink)
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I've never felt anything more for men than 'fancying' a guy. Which makes me feel like I'm missing out on alot because I've never really cared for someone or been anywhere near being in love. I'm fussy. I feel like I always find faults with men when I don't want to but something always puts me off them and all I think after that is "creep" yet I'm too nice to let them down so it ends in copious amounts of arguements meanwhile I push them further away. I feel like people I'm actually interested in never have a mutual feeling and people that are interested in me are all ****ing genuine weirdos. It's a load of pish.
I was the same for a long time. Now however, I am way more sure of myself and what I expect from a man. So I'm going to keep taking risks but also give people a chance to show who they are rather than me judging them off the bat.
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Old 02-02-2012, 06:17 PM   #9453 (permalink)
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I've had my fill of relationships. My last one was maybe 4 years ago? I don't know, but I can say I'm happier with friends then I was with girlfriends.
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Old 02-02-2012, 06:39 PM   #9454 (permalink)
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Guess you guys won't be celebrating Valentines Day?
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Old 02-02-2012, 07:02 PM   #9455 (permalink)
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Guess you guys won't be celebrating Valentines Day?
Corporate holidays are for saps.
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Old 02-02-2012, 07:24 PM   #9456 (permalink)
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Old 02-02-2012, 11:22 PM   #9457 (permalink)
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Yeah, go for it. One of the biggest problems I've had in over-analyzing things is I let it hold me back form certain experiences. Just let it happen and try not to think about it consciously too much...just let whatever emotions happen happen. No matter what happens - good or bad - you'll learn something from it and it will help you down the line. Good luck, man.
Haha thanks! Yeah we will see! Cheers

@Aurora It seems like maybe you need to find more as to what you want and may need a new approach to do that. I don't know if this applies to you too but it certainly has for me with my relationships with people (not just romantic ones): Basically I find that a lot of times the problems that come up with relationships come up from putting up to much barriers and the frustration towards the other person and what seem to be faults can actually be a personal frustration in how they respond to the barriers you put up and not actual problems with them. I know some people are just horrible but at the same time I think there is a lot more good in people when you make an effort to be real with them than many people realize. Like if you think a guy is making you uncomfortable standing your ground can be really important because if you don't it can really misrepresent you and in the long run it makes you discredit your own feelings. Which sucks because you feelings DO matter but there is a lot of things telling us otherwise. Every day we repress our feelings because we feel they aren't valid but we forget that the fact that if it even came up in our head at all (an emotion or feeling) should be enough evidence that it matters.

Just my 2 idealistic inexperienced potentially skewed biased and likely immature cents.

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Old 02-02-2012, 11:23 PM   #9458 (permalink)
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I will!
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Old 02-03-2012, 02:46 PM   #9459 (permalink)
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Yaayy me too!

I've kind of gotten over that "it's just a commercialised holiday" nonsense, because really, for me it's just an excuse to receive chocolate and bake something lovely

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Old 02-03-2012, 05:51 PM   #9460 (permalink)
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I will! This is actually the first Valentines Day where I've had an actual valentine, lol.
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