The Bitch Box

Paedantic Basterd · 11-19-2011, 04:06 PM

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Originally Posted by skaltezon

Fuck off . You're disgusting.

Not sure if deserves infraction...

Thom Yorke · 11-19-2011, 04:26 PM

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Originally Posted by LoathsomePete

So feel free to tell me to fuck off for bitching about this, but it's been bugging me all day.

So last night I ended an almost 3-year dry spell, well except for the fact that I couldn't finish. Two and a half hours of going at it she had to tell me to stop because she was beginning to get sore and had to be at the lab early. First time getting laid in almost 3-years and I can't even finish. This use to happen when I was on Cymbalta, but I've been off the stuff for years so I have no idea what the problem is. It wasn't that I found her unattractive and she knew what she was doing so I honestly have no idea what the problem is. It was kind of reassuring that I haven't become a 2-pump chump in the few years of my abstinence, but in some ways this is worse. I had to reassure the girl that it wasn't her, that this is pretty normal with me (which is true, but only when I was on medication). Blah.

Did you check with your doctor to see if there would be any lingering side effects? I think it would be pretty rare and most would be reversible, but you never know.

LoathsomePete · 11-19-2011, 04:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Thom Yorke

Did you check with your doctor to see if there would be any lingering side effects? I think it would be pretty rare and most would be reversible, but you never know.

I'd rather wait and see if this is a recurring theme before I go see a doctor but I'd be lying if I said the thought hadn't crossed my mind.

lucifer_sam · 11-19-2011, 07:03 PM

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Originally Posted by LoathsomePete

So feel free to tell me to fuck off for bitching about this, but it's been bugging me all day.

So last night I ended an almost 3-year dry spell, well except for the fact that I couldn't finish. Two and a half hours of going at it she had to tell me to stop because she was beginning to get sore and had to be at the lab early. First time getting laid in almost 3-years and I can't even finish. This use to happen when I was on Cymbalta, but I've been off the stuff for years so I have no idea what the problem is. It wasn't that I found her unattractive and she knew what she was doing so I honestly have no idea what the problem is. It was kind of reassuring that I haven't become a 2-pump chump in the few years of my abstinence, but in some ways this is worse. I had to reassure the girl that it wasn't her, that this is pretty normal with me (which is true, but only when I was on medication). Blah.

SSRIs have sexual side effects that can last for years, even after treatment is resolved. They hijack neurotransmitters in the brain and override human sexual satiety cues so that the normal process of tension & release is ablated. If you were taking Cymbalta for a while it's natural for it to take some time to get back into the regular swing of things. Keep having sex and try doing it sober -- it's easy to be proud of longevity, but sexual satiety is more important to maintaining personal health.

The easiest way to describe your situation is that if you're unwilling to have sex with your girl without wearing a condom, it probably isn't the rubber that's keeping you out of the fight. Trust and mutual respect are as important elements to the psychosomatic process of getting off as physical attraction is...medication tends to desensitize that effect. One-night stands are not a good way to practice this at all.

As soon as I realized that SSRIs messed with my sexual response to physical stimulation, I was a non-believer. Interrupting this process has such severe repercussions on a person's emotional well-being it's no wonder we're all depressed to begin with.

I will say, exercise helps. Strenuous aerobic exercise is a great tool to expediting the removal of withdrawal symptoms since it speeds metabolic processes in the body. Also, make sure your diet includes enough cholesterol for the production of testosterone. Not enough and your body will compensate by arresting libido.

**Scarlett O'Hara** · 11-19-2011, 07:06 PM

There is this old hag that lives at my residence, she is constantly trying to tell me how I should do things and today while I was cleaning my dishes she starts wanking on about how she couldn't handle a messy room and leaving dishes in her room. It was an obvious attack at me and then some girl beside her is like "I totally agree". Seriously, it's my room not yours so **** off. Her face looks like an Ogre, for real.

Burning Down · 11-21-2011, 11:52 AM

I'm trying to block a number from calling or texting me - this person is just totally harassing me - and I can't figure out how to do so. I don't even give my number out to people, they practically have to beg me for it. I know I could change my number, but my contract's not up until mid-January so my carrier will charge a fee for that. I'm definitely getting a new number when I renew my contract, though.

LoathsomePete · 11-21-2011, 11:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Burning Down

I'm trying to block a number from calling or texting me - this person is just totally harassing me - and I can't figure out how to do so. I don't even give my number out to people, they practically have to beg me for it. I know I could change my number, but my contract's not up until mid-January so my carrier will charge a fee for that. I'm definitely getting a new number when I renew my contract, though.

You should just be able to do it through your service provider. If you're with Telus I can ask a friend of mine who works for them what the process is.

eraser.time206 · 11-21-2011, 12:03 PM

I went to a hair salon and the woman that was cutting my hair rejected my advances. I guess I misinterpreted her signals or whatever.

Burning Down · 11-21-2011, 12:07 PM

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Originally Posted by LoathsomePete

You should just be able to do it through your service provider. If you're with Telus I can ask a friend of mine who works for them what the process is.

I am with Telus - on their website it says I can call *60 and follow the instructions, however when I call it I get a message saying "this special number is not available in your calling area". Ugh, I'm not out in the sticks, I'm in Hamilton, ON! It's not urgent or anything but I just don't want to be bothered by this person...

**Janszoon** · 11-21-2011, 12:07 PM

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Originally Posted by eraser.time206

I went to a hair salon and the woman the was cutting my hair rejected my advances. I guess I misinterpreted her signals or whatever.

Did her "signals" involve touching your hair?

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11-19-2011, 07:06 PM	#9045 (permalink)
Scarlett O'Hara Make it so Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 6,181	There is this old hag that lives at my residence, she is constantly trying to tell me how I should do things and today while I was cleaning my dishes she starts wanking on about how she couldn't handle a messy room and leaving dishes in her room. It was an obvious attack at me and then some girl beside her is like "I totally agree". Seriously, it's my room not yours so **** off. Her face looks like an Ogre, for real. __________________ "Elph is truly an enfant terrible of the forum, bless and curse him" - Marie, Queen of Thots

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eraser.time206 Music Addict Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: Texas Posts: 263	I went to a hair salon and the woman that was cutting my hair rejected my advances. I guess I misinterpreted her signals or whatever. __________________ Before I go on, let me warn you that I talk dirty, and that I will say things you will neither enjoy nor agree with. You shouldn't feel threatened, though, because I am a mere buffoon, and you are all philosophers. Last edited by eraser.time206; 11-21-2011 at 10:49 PM.

11-21-2011, 11:52 AM	#9046 (permalink)
Burning Down The Music Guru. Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Beyond the Wall Posts: 4,858	I'm trying to block a number from calling or texting me - this person is just totally harassing me - and I can't figure out how to do so. I don't even give my number out to people, they practically have to beg me for it. I know I could change my number, but my contract's not up until mid-January so my carrier will charge a fee for that. I'm definitely getting a new number when I renew my contract, though.