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mosesandtherubberducky · 06-03-2006, 02:27 PM

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Originally Posted by bruise_violet

Try to convince her to stay with her grandparents! She'll have loads of money and a boyfriend and if her grandparents are 'normal' she will be super spoilt.

I would HATE to live in Florida, I hate the sun so much.

Yeah, her parents are stupid. They want to move there to open a bar and yet they still have a 15 year old daughter and a 5 year old son. And they're (her grandparents) pretty normal. I met her grandfather at a play, he was pretty cool. ooooo and they have a house on this really pretty lake. ^.^ But it's her choice, so I'm not going to try to persuade her into doing something she doesn't want to do 100%. That's just not me.

explosions-in-my-pants · 06-03-2006, 02:29 PM

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Originally Posted by mosesandtherubberducky

Yeah, her parents are stupid. They want to move there to open a bar and yet they still have a 15 year old daughter and a 5 year old son. And they're (her grandparents) pretty normal. I met her grandfather at a play, he was pretty cool. ooooo and they have a house on this really pretty lake. ^.^ But it's her choice, so I'm not going to try to persuade her into doing something she doesn't want to do 100%. That's just not me.

i don't really see how that makes her parents stupid. but i do get why your hurt, but if she stays at her grand parents 20 miles away.. will you get to see her often? even if its not that far away?

mosesandtherubberducky · 06-03-2006, 02:34 PM

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Originally Posted by explosions-in-my-pants

i don't really see how that makes her parents stupid. but i do get why your hurt, but if she stays at her grand parents 20 miles away.. will you get to see her often? even if its not that far away?

How the fuck did you get that I'm hurt. You know I was just putting it out there as something to bitch about. Don't give me some stupid sap shit about not being ment to be. That's bullshit I like her right now and so I want to be with her. If anyone is stupid enough to take your advice they diserve what ever happens to them.

bruise_violet · 06-03-2006, 02:37 PM

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Originally Posted by mosesandtherubberducky

Yeah, her parents are stupid. They want to move there to open a bar and yet they still have a 15 year old daughter and a 5 year old son. And they're (her grandparents) pretty normal. I met her grandfather at a play, he was pretty cool. ooooo and they have a house on this really pretty lake. ^.^ But it's her choice, so I'm not going to try to persuade her into doing something she doesn't want to do 100%. That's just not me.

Aww that's sweet that you aren't going to persuade her, although maybe that's what she needs! If a guy asked me not to move then I probably wouldn't, I'm sad like that

explosions-in-my-pants · 06-03-2006, 02:37 PM

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Originally Posted by mosesandtherubberducky

How the fuck did you get that I'm hurt. You know I was just putting it out there as something to bitch about. Don't give me some stupid sap shit about not being ment to be. That's bullshit I like her right now and so I want to be with her. If anyone is stupid enough to take your advice they diserve what ever happens to them.

Any moron would be hurt if someone they care about as a boyfriend or girlfriend is or might be moving away.. wether you say it or not anyone would guess it.. don't attack me for having a brain and a heart. And i didn't give you any advice, stop trying to turn everything i say into me being a bitch.. one day you'll see i'm a good person (not that i even care).

Urban Hat€monger ? · 06-03-2006, 02:38 PM

Here we go again

TrampInaTux · 06-03-2006, 02:39 PM

Calm the **** down. She was being nice to you, Jesus....

Anyway well done for not pestering into staying. That might make her change her mind better than if you kept saying 'please stay please stay please stay'. I don't know what to suggest here mate. Then again, it sounds like you don't want help to much. Hey, I'm not in your situation, so I don't have a clue. Do what you think is best and she will do what she thinks is best. Whatever is meant to be will be.

mosesandtherubberducky · 06-03-2006, 02:39 PM

^Thanks for trying to help hobo

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Originally Posted by bruise_violet

Aww that's sweet that you aren't going to persuade her, although maybe that's what she needs! If a guy asked me not to move then I probably wouldn't, I'm sad like that

I talk to her about it but I don't blatantly tell her that she should. It's her choice.

explosions-in-my-pants · 06-03-2006, 02:42 PM

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Originally Posted by bruise_violet

Aww that's sweet that you aren't going to persuade her, although maybe that's what she needs! If a guy asked me not to move then I probably wouldn't, I'm sad like that

well said. But the way i see it is (even if you don't care) that if she has the choice to stay with her grandparents which are 20 miles away from you or go with her parents which are 400 miles away from you.. and decides to go, don't take it as she doesn't want to be with you, chances are moving just seems like a new way to try new things, explore and see new things, not saying she wants to find anybody else cause chances are that won't have anything to do with it. More then likely when she makes a choice if theres one to be made she'll be honest and tell you why, and i would give you advice and say try the long distance thing because its wortha try after all it could be ment to be wether its forever or for a few years or whatever. You don't care for my advice but oh well.

I've done the long distance thing before, it worked for about 9 months or something and then came to a cashing end.. its not the long distance that ****ed it up tho it was the begining.. you know the part when we never should have met..

bruise_violet · 06-03-2006, 02:43 PM

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Originally Posted by mosesandtherubberducky

I talk to her about it but I don't blatantly tell her that she should. It's her choice.

But did you like, say that it would upset you if she left?

Sorry I really shouldn't be giving anyone advice on stuff like this, I suck!

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TrampInaTux that's my war face. Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 1,418	Calm the **** down. She was being nice to you, Jesus.... Anyway well done for not pestering into staying. That might make her change her mind better than if you kept saying 'please stay please stay please stay'. I don't know what to suggest here mate. Then again, it sounds like you don't want help to much. Hey, I'm not in your situation, so I don't have a clue. Do what you think is best and she will do what she thinks is best. Whatever is meant to be will be.