Originally Posted by Kiiii

Heartbreak makes you stronger. Don't be like me and mope around. It does nothing good and I regret ever feeling bad about it because I've wasted so much time.

Originally Posted by Tristan Geoff

Sheeiit man why does masturbation have to be tied to who you're dating or not? I haven't gone a day without for about a year now.

Originally Posted by J.R.R. Tolkien

There is only one bright spot and that is the growing habit of disgruntled men of dynamiting factories and power-stations; I hope that, encouraged now as ‘patriotism’, may remain a habit! But it won’t do any good, if it is not universal.

Originally Posted by Man like Monkey

^ this and cut her off immediately, in fact that's probably the best thing you can do, accept it, agree with her and then completely remove her from your life. Every time you speak to them you are setting back your recovery imvho.

Originally Posted by Kiiii

And that's pretty much where I'm at now. She lives on the street in the city I live in so it's hard to avoid but I've really had to accept the fact that I don't want to be in her life. It's especially hard when I was with her for so long, but I can't waste anymore time.

Originally Posted by wolverinewolfweiselpigeon

Yeeesh, brutal. Although I assume she's 16 as well? That doesn't excuse it of course but no one knows how to handle things like this at 16. The best advice I have is to really try to not take this as a personal failing on your part, or as indicative of your own worth as a person. It's easy to think regretfully and wonder what went wrong and how you might have done things differently, but try to keep that self-reflection productive, i.e. what did you learn that worked for you or didn't in this relationship, and how will those things show up in or help your next relationship? Being heartbroken sucks, and there's no easy fix, but the best way I've found to move forward is to take responsibility for your own happiness. Do the things that make you happy, practice the behaviors you want to see in yourself - don't rely on someone else to fulfill you or make you happy. Listen to all the sad songs today, get to know yourself better tomorrow.

Originally Posted by The Batlord

Has he seen combat? If so set off a pipe bomb next to the house and give him flashbacks. With any luck he'll strangle his wife in panic.

Originally Posted by Tristan Geoff

Sheeiit man why does masturbation have to be tied to who you're dating or not? I haven't gone a day without for about a year now.

Originally Posted by RoxyRollah

IMO I don't know jack-**** though so don't listen to me.

Originally Posted by Franco Pepe Kalle

The problem is that most police officers in America are psychopaths.

Originally Posted by The Batlord

You're a terrible dictionary.

Originally Posted by djchameleon

Yeah, it's lame people masturbate while in relationships too. It's just a stupid stigma.

Originally Posted by J.R.R. Tolkien

There is only one bright spot and that is the growing habit of disgruntled men of dynamiting factories and power-stations; I hope that, encouraged now as ‘patriotism’, may remain a habit! But it won’t do any good, if it is not universal.

Originally Posted by The Batlord

I'm not even mad. Seriously I'm not. You're a good dude, and I think and hope you'll become something good

Originally Posted by J.R.R. Tolkien

There is only one bright spot and that is the growing habit of disgruntled men of dynamiting factories and power-stations; I hope that, encouraged now as ‘patriotism’, may remain a habit! But it won’t do any good, if it is not universal.