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grtwhtgrvty 02-23-2015 12:51 AM

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Originally Posted by Mondo Bungle (Post 1555509)
I don't think I even have a financial situation. I've never had a job or anything. I just tag along with my parents bringing them down. It's their situation.

**** that you aren't bringing anyone down. It's them. They are bringing you down.

Oriphiel 02-23-2015 04:35 AM

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Originally Posted by grtwhtgrvty (Post 1555647)
Everyone should feel special.

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Trollheart 02-23-2015 05:19 AM

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Originally Posted by grtwhtgrvty (Post 1555647)
You just contradicted yourself so hard hun.

That point of view is bull**** to me. You should feel special. You should absolutely believe that you are special.

The first quote was nice, and then you go off to say that he will 100% hate himself forever, maybe a little less now and then. I don't know how people even avoid suicide when they don't even think they are worthwhile or special. Believing in myself and viewing myself as intelligent and special and worthwhile is hands down the ONLY reason I'm not dead. The fact that you referenced that as a stupid lie really puts me off.

Everyone should feel special. You shouldn't even imply that someone should feel special and you should never tell a depressed eighteen year old some washed up jaded bull****. You should never force your pessimistic views onto someone. It's fine if you manage to live feeling sorry for yourself but it's not healthy and it's a ****ty thing to project that unhealthy mindset onto other people just because you can't overcome it tbh.

Maybe you were joking idk but that rubbed me the wrong way.

I'm so tired of people who feel sad and pathetic feeling the need to infect everyone around them with their unending, unapologetic sadness. It's like emotional terrorism, like making other people miserable somehow validates their pathetic life.

"There's nothing wrong with me, it's just the way the world is."

Wrong. There's something wrong with you.

Could not agree more with this. Why is everyone so negative? Jesus people! There are things to live for. You know my situation and I still love my life, and so does my sis. Grow a ****ing pair for god's sake and stop bringing everyone down. You may not have to buy into "you're so special" but you shouldn't be telling people they'll hate themselves and there's no way around it. That's no help. I have seldom if ever hated myself (what is there to hate about me, now really?) and even though I have been in the odd black depression I have always found a way out.

With an attitude like that, you might as well just go to the undertaker's and say "Nice! I'll take it!" :rolleyes:

Don't mean to belittle anyone's mental state, but you need to think positively and, what is more important, encourage those who are in a similar mindset to do so also.
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Machine 02-23-2015 11:14 AM

Yeah I don't really see the problem with telling yourself your special. I mean of course don't dillute yourself but no matter what everyone is special in their own way weather you believe that ir not.

Frownland 02-23-2015 11:15 AM

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Originally Posted by Machine (Post 1555782)
Yeah I don't really see the problem with telling yourself your special. I mean of course don't dillute yourself but no matter what everyone is special in their own way weather you believe that ir not.

Like how sum people is good in grammars and some isn't.

John Wilkes Booth 02-23-2015 11:30 AM

everyone being special is a funny concept to me cause it sort of makes being special sound kind of pointless and mundane

but i do agree that confidence is a more productive quality to have than self hatred

Mondo Bungle 02-23-2015 11:31 AM

Then there would be no indie rock or depressive suicidal black metal.

Frankly, I don't want to live in a world without Nattramn

Ninetales 02-23-2015 12:12 PM

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Originally Posted by John Wilkes Booth (Post 1555795)
everyone being special is a funny concept to me cause it sort of makes being special sound kind of pointless and mundane

but i do agree that confidence is a more productive quality to have than self hatred

saying someones "special" is a pretty hollow term if you ask me. same as "unique". ya cool we are different. doesn't mean anything.

The Batlord 02-23-2015 12:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Ninetales (Post 1555812)
saying someones "special" is a pretty hollow term if you ask me. same as "unique". ya cool we are different. doesn't mean anything.

Yeah, it doesn't stop most people from being drones who dress the same, talk the same, hang out with people just like them, get jobs they're expected to get, etc. Regardless of how special everyone is, in the grand scheme of things, 90% of people are still replaceable.

John Wilkes Booth 02-23-2015 02:33 PM

^which is why i think they should be replaced by actual drones
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Originally Posted by Mondo Bungle (Post 1555797)
Then there would be no indie rock

only helps strengthen my case tbh


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