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12-14-2013, 03:22 PM | #13601 (permalink) | ||
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12-15-2013, 02:03 PM | #13602 (permalink) | |
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12-15-2013, 03:02 PM | #13603 (permalink) |
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It seems like my friends only like me when I'm happy and joking. Now when I'm not nobody wants to be with me or even talk to me. I admit that I may be annoying but I would be happy if my friends could even talk with me seriously sometimes or something. That's what friends are for.
But no. I would like to ba like they want me to be but I feel unable. After all, I'm mildly depressed, at least I have been and I'm not over it yet and also I guess I have some kind of panic disorder or something cos I find it hard to be a part of a big group. When I'm with a group I usually talk too much,do too much, I act like a clown or something and then I burn down. I find it hard to be myself. I'm trying to be someone else and people expect me to be someone else is really am. Also my doctor said I got a heart disorder or something. It is because he said I'm always stressed when I'm with people so my heart beats out of time and unrhytmically and he said I would need drugs for it. I dunno if he's gonna give me drugs for my heart of for my mind...probably I would need both. Sorry for that, but I had to let these things out. And I have got nearly nobody to speak...but I'm trying to not post these long complaints here. |
12-15-2013, 03:17 PM | #13604 (permalink) | |
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12-15-2013, 03:18 PM | #13605 (permalink) |
watching the wheels
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But the problem is that men do not talk about these things. And at least in Finland they are not even supposed to. Luckily I have some female friends.
But as a whole, I feel a little bit outcast. I cannot identify with macho culture... It seems like a man is not supposed to be very emotional or something like that. Sometimes it hurts me, but it is a cruel world we're living in. My problem is I'm too emphatic and I tend to forget myself sometimes. I should learn to be myself and care about myself... I should go to therapy or something |
12-15-2013, 03:27 PM | #13607 (permalink) | |
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12-15-2013, 04:14 PM | #13608 (permalink) |
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If your friends only want you when you're a "party animal" or part of the gang then they're no friends at all. As you correctly say, friends are supposed to be there for you in the bad times as well as the good. You should in no way feel under stress to act as they want you to. They're entirely selfish, if they realise they're doing this and still do it. Have you tried talking to any of them, maybe the closer ones, about it? Maybe they just don't realise you're down, particularly if you're putting on a false face all the time.
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12-15-2013, 04:54 PM | #13609 (permalink) | |
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I know that feeling. I choose not to talk to certain male friends about certain things because if it gets too serious or emotional then they just shut down and start thinking that it's not okay to be talking about that type of stuff.
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12-15-2013, 07:43 PM | #13610 (permalink) |
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my opinion i leave the sappy stuff for the chicks to cry around about. once every few blue moons i will talk aobut somethin serious with a friend, like when my best friends father died or when my one buddy lost his eyesight for a few weeks, etc. but maybe they wanna keep it light conversation and have fun and you are too emotional and bein a buzzkill?? i dunno, im not there. me and my friends dont talk about heavy stuff mainyl cause we dont got much goin on. we wanna bullshiit about sports and girl and music and drink
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