The Bitch Box

The Batlord · 12-14-2013, 03:22 PM

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Originally Posted by ladyislingering

here's a quick rundown of the past 12 hours of my life:

3am: sleeping after listening to Slade for 3 hours straight
4am: get felt up by sleeping Ki, just go with it
4:30am: best sex in weeks
4:45am: toilet overflows because it's a bigger piece of shit than the shit that goes into it
4:50am: call maintenance emergency line
5:00am: connected to operator, Russian guy says he'll be here soon
5:30am: fall asleep
7:30am: fuckface finally shows up, fixes toilet, leaves
11:50am: wake up, can't take a shower because all the towels went to cleaning up water from shitty toilet
1pm: drive Ki to work, stuck in traffic all the way there and back
1:30pm: stuck in line at Costco for 20min just to save 12 cents off every gallon
2:30pm: minimal grocery shopping, quarters for laundry
3:00pm: just realized I forgot to buy a plunger

mfw I have to go all the way back downtown and toilet is still making random running noises (and I still have to do 3 loads of laundry and start my Christmas shopping) AND goddamn Gorby the Toilet Man didn't even fix the screwed up flush handle:

And you voted for me for Angriest Member?

**Scarlett O'Hara** · 12-15-2013, 02:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Burning Down

I guess he was drunk too? Take it with a grain of salt, lol

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Originally Posted by Paul Smeenus

And some Advil

I'm fine now, I just slept it off! I remember sitting outside of the house, patting two ginger kitties with cute little bells! I could have played there all night but I don't think waking up on the concrete is the best idea!

Taxman · 12-15-2013, 03:02 PM

It seems like my friends only like me when I'm happy and joking. Now when I'm not nobody wants to be with me or even talk to me. I admit that I may be annoying but I would be happy if my friends could even talk with me seriously sometimes or something. That's what friends are for.
But no. I would like to ba like they want me to be but I feel unable. After all, I'm mildly depressed, at least I have been and I'm not over it yet and also I guess I have some kind of panic disorder or something cos I find it hard to be a part of a big group.
When I'm with a group I usually talk too much,do too much, I act like a clown or something and then I burn down. I find it hard to be myself. I'm trying to be someone else and people expect me to be someone else is really am.
Also my doctor said I got a heart disorder or something. It is because he said I'm always stressed when I'm with people so my heart beats out of time and unrhytmically and he said I would need drugs for it.
I dunno if he's gonna give me drugs for my heart of for my mind...probably I would need both.

Sorry for that, but I had to let these things out. And I have got nearly nobody to speak...but I'm trying to not post these long complaints here.

~~Sansa Stark~~ · 12-15-2013, 03:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Taxman

It seems like my friends only like me when I'm happy and joking. Now when I'm not nobody wants to be with me or even talk to me. I admit that I may be annoying but I would be happy if my friends could even talk with me seriously sometimes or something. That's what friends are for.
But no. I would like to ba like they want me to be but I feel unable. After all, I'm mildly depressed, at least I have been and I'm not over it yet and also I guess I have some kind of panic disorder or something cos I find it hard to be a part of a big group.
When I'm with a group I usually talk too much,do too much, I act like a clown or something and then I burn down. I find it hard to be myself. I'm trying to be someone else and people expect me to be someone else is really am.
Also my doctor said I got a heart disorder or something. It is because he said I'm always stressed when I'm with people so my heart beats out of time and unrhytmically and he said I would need drugs for it.
I dunno if he's gonna give me drugs for my heart of for my mind...probably I would need both.

Sorry for that, but I had to let these things out. And I have got nearly nobody to speak...but I'm trying to not post these long complaints here.

I'm sorry you have such ****ty friends

Taxman · 12-15-2013, 03:18 PM

But the problem is that men do not talk about these things. And at least in Finland they are not even supposed to. Luckily I have some female friends.
But as a whole, I feel a little bit outcast. I cannot identify with macho culture... It seems like a man is not supposed to be very emotional or something like that. Sometimes it hurts me, but it is a cruel world we're living in.
My problem is I'm too emphatic and I tend to forget myself sometimes. I should learn to be myself and care about myself... I should go to therapy or something

Taxman · 12-15-2013, 03:19 PM

Well, being a male means your friends cannot talk seriously about these thing. At least young males cannot. Maybe they aren't true friends but they're the best I have

~~Sansa Stark~~ · 12-15-2013, 03:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Taxman

But the problem is that men do not talk about these things. And at least in Finland they are not even supposed to. Luckily I have some female friends.
But as a whole, I feel a little bit outcast. I cannot identify with macho culture... It seems like a man is not supposed to be very emotional or something like that. Sometimes it hurts me, but it is a cruel world we're living in.
My problem is I'm too emphatic and I tend to forget myself sometimes. I should learn to be myself and care about myself... I should go to therapy or something

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Originally Posted by Taxman

Well, being a male means your friends cannot talk seriously about these thing. At least young males cannot. Maybe they aren't true friends but they're the best I have

No, they don't sound like true friends at all.

Trollheart · 12-15-2013, 04:14 PM

If your friends only want you when you're a "party animal" or part of the gang then they're no friends at all. As you correctly say, friends are supposed to be there for you in the bad times as well as the good. You should in no way feel under stress to act as they want you to. They're entirely selfish, if they realise they're doing this and still do it. Have you tried talking to any of them, maybe the closer ones, about it? Maybe they just don't realise you're down, particularly if you're putting on a false face all the time.

djchameleon · 12-15-2013, 04:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Taxman

Well, being a male means your friends cannot talk seriously about these thing. At least young males cannot. Maybe they aren't true friends but they're the best I have

I know that feeling. I choose not to talk to certain male friends about certain things because if it gets too serious or emotional then they just shut down and start thinking that it's not okay to be talking about that type of stuff.

~~butthead aka 216~~ · 12-15-2013, 07:43 PM

my opinion i leave the sappy stuff for the chicks to cry around about. once every few blue moons i will talk aobut somethin serious with a friend, like when my best friends father died or when my one buddy lost his eyesight for a few weeks, etc. but maybe they wanna keep it light conversation and have fun and you are too emotional and bein a buzzkill?? i dunno, im not there. me and my friends dont talk about heavy stuff mainyl cause we dont got much goin on. we wanna bullshiit about sports and girl and music and drink

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12-15-2013, 04:14 PM	#13608 (permalink)
Trollheart Born to be mild Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: 404 Not Found Posts: 26,994	If your friends only want you when you're a "party animal" or part of the gang then they're no friends at all. As you correctly say, friends are supposed to be there for you in the bad times as well as the good. You should in no way feel under stress to act as they want you to. They're entirely selfish, if they realise they're doing this and still do it. Have you tried talking to any of them, maybe the closer ones, about it? Maybe they just don't realise you're down, particularly if you're putting on a false face all the time. __________________ Trollheart: Signature-free since April 2018

12-15-2013, 03:02 PM	#13603 (permalink)
Taxman watching the wheels Join Date: Oct 2013 Location: Finland Posts: 470	It seems like my friends only like me when I'm happy and joking. Now when I'm not nobody wants to be with me or even talk to me. I admit that I may be annoying but I would be happy if my friends could even talk with me seriously sometimes or something. That's what friends are for. But no. I would like to ba like they want me to be but I feel unable. After all, I'm mildly depressed, at least I have been and I'm not over it yet and also I guess I have some kind of panic disorder or something cos I find it hard to be a part of a big group. When I'm with a group I usually talk too much,do too much, I act like a clown or something and then I burn down. I find it hard to be myself. I'm trying to be someone else and people expect me to be someone else is really am. Also my doctor said I got a heart disorder or something. It is because he said I'm always stressed when I'm with people so my heart beats out of time and unrhytmically and he said I would need drugs for it. I dunno if he's gonna give me drugs for my heart of for my mind...probably I would need both. Sorry for that, but I had to let these things out. And I have got nearly nobody to speak...but I'm trying to not post these long complaints here.

12-15-2013, 03:18 PM	#13605 (permalink)
Taxman watching the wheels Join Date: Oct 2013 Location: Finland Posts: 470	But the problem is that men do not talk about these things. And at least in Finland they are not even supposed to. Luckily I have some female friends. But as a whole, I feel a little bit outcast. I cannot identify with macho culture... It seems like a man is not supposed to be very emotional or something like that. Sometimes it hurts me, but it is a cruel world we're living in. My problem is I'm too emphatic and I tend to forget myself sometimes. I should learn to be myself and care about myself... I should go to therapy or something

12-15-2013, 03:19 PM	#13606 (permalink)
Taxman watching the wheels Join Date: Oct 2013 Location: Finland Posts: 470	Well, being a male means your friends cannot talk seriously about these thing. At least young males cannot. Maybe they aren't true friends but they're the best I have

12-15-2013, 07:43 PM	#13610 (permalink)
~~butthead aka 216~~ Account Disabled Join Date: Jun 2013 Location: freely swimmin thru the waters of glory much like a majestic bald eagle soars thru the skies Posts: 1,463	my opinion i leave the sappy stuff for the chicks to cry around about. once every few blue moons i will talk aobut somethin serious with a friend, like when my best friends father died or when my one buddy lost his eyesight for a few weeks, etc. but maybe they wanna keep it light conversation and have fun and you are too emotional and bein a buzzkill?? i dunno, im not there. me and my friends dont talk about heavy stuff mainyl cause we dont got much goin on. we wanna bullshiit about sports and girl and music and drink