Yeah we already plan on having the bonfire going for Saturday.

I've got this one friend whos ****ting himself cause we're doing it. He's telling us if we do it he's probably not gonna hang with us and I don't really know what to do. I'm leaning towards just not giving a shit because this kid has always been such a buzzkill. Like last weekend we went back to my house after someone's sweet sixteen party and we had heard these douches were having a drinking party so we were gonna go over and mess with them but he wouldn't come because it's past 11.

Yeah, if you need some proof it doesn't mess up your life, I used to smoke everyday (only at night once I got all my work done...a bit more on the weekends, obviously) all throughout college. I graduated with a degree in genetics. In hindsight I wish I smoked a little less, but I still got where I needed to go.

If the kid doesn't want to do it, respect that. That's his call. But he needs to respect your call as well. If he's not going to hang with you, then tell him that's fine and you'll make it up to him by bringing him to Chucky Cheese's or something next weekend. lol.

Yeah don't get caught up in the reefer madness. Do what you want to do and enjoy it for what it is, not what other people think of it.

Hugs>Weed.

You ever try hugs...... ON WEED?

I like my drugs pure..

I definitely respect his decision, I would never try to peer pressure anyone into doing something they didn't want to. I've already told him I don't care what he chooses to do and whatever it may be I will respect it, I'm just thinking completely bailing on all of us is pretty extreme.

Are apple bongs a good way to go? I really don't want my first time to be out of a soda can or some plastic bottle.

Oh jeez. Just roll a J or something. I guess you're not 18 so you can't really buy any accessories. Applebongs are OK, but they go bad quickly and aren't really good for groups. I would try to get your hands on papers or a blunt wrap, and possibly a rolling machine.

Ugh... no dude.
Get a simple glass pipe or bong, or roll joints/blunts. If you don't have any of that, ask the guy you're getting the weed from and see if you can borrow/buy something to smoke out of. I'm sure you even have some friends at school who'll let you borrow something. If not, find an 18 year old and get him to buy a pipe from your local headshop.
Don't you dare smoke out of a tin-can.