Is it cool for guys to cry? (member, show, quote)

jackhammer · 10-10-2007, 05:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Kevorkian Logic

Yea, I know many females feel that way. I've gotten in arguments about it with them. It's just an enormous turn-off to me for some reason. I'm not to big in the sharing/showing emotions part of life. It drives my bf crazy.

I bawled my arse off when my sons entered this world. If no woman finds that emotional they are beyond help!

Kevorkian Logic · 10-10-2007, 05:26 PM

I don't like kids.
no offense, i'm sure yours are great, I just have little patience with them.

holdyoualways · 10-10-2007, 05:28 PM

i hate kids as well & i find absolutely nothing beautiful about actual child labor but the result, seeing a human being that you created is beautiful & if i ever have kids (definetely not planning on it) i will probably bawl my eyes out as well & i HATE crying

anticipation · 10-10-2007, 05:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kevorkian Logic

I don't like kids.
no offense, i'm sure yours are great, I just have little patience with them.

omfg yes.

kids are seriously bull****,
when i was growing up, i never acted like a spoiled brat.
when adults were talking, i was actually quiet,
instead of trying to be the biggest prick of all time and get their attention.

Voice_of_the_Soul12,13,01 · 10-10-2007, 05:38 PM

I kind of find crying to be just another form of letting out frustration. Not a very attractive form, but a way of saying you can't take it anymore. Like a family member dies and you have to mourn, or your relationship with someone ends so suddenly and there's no chance of getting it back.

But if you're gonna cry for something stupid like if someone punches you in the arm too hard, I will call you a ***. <_< In this case, I see it as a sign of weakness. One rule I live by; never let them see you bleed.

Urban Hat€monger ? · 10-10-2007, 05:59 PM

Only when someone spills your beer

youngjg · 10-10-2007, 07:32 PM

its okay for a dude to cry, depending on what its over. if u're in love and get ur heartbroken, i think that'll b enough grounds

Duke Of Slander · 10-10-2007, 07:47 PM

Serious emotional upheaval (family dying, suddn break up ect.) it's ok

Petty **** = puss

I haven't cried in a while, I get destructive when I'm angry, sad, ect. I prefer to put that energy into my pyromania

anticipation · 10-10-2007, 10:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by youngjg

its okay for a dude to cry, depending on what its over. if u're in love and get ur heartbroken, i think that'll b enough grounds

gay.

Trauma · 10-10-2007, 10:38 PM

Why would it not be cool for a guy to cry is a better question.

10-10-2007, 05:26 PM	#12 (permalink)
Kevorkian Logic Imperfectly Perfect Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: North Carolina Posts: 1,290	I don't like kids. no offense, i'm sure yours are great, I just have little patience with them. __________________ "it is only through a limitless accumulation of the imperfect that a certain type of perfection can be attained"

10-10-2007, 05:28 PM	#13 (permalink)
holdyoualways Elevator to the moon Join Date: May 2005 Location: Snowy, cold, miserable Pennsylvania Posts: 1,088	i hate kids as well & i find absolutely nothing beautiful about actual child labor but the result, seeing a human being that you created is beautiful & if i ever have kids (definetely not planning on it) i will probably bawl my eyes out as well & i HATE crying __________________ You're my satellite <3

10-10-2007, 05:38 PM	#15 (permalink)
Voice_of_the_Soul12,13,01 #1 Schuldinist. Join Date: Apr 2007 Posts: 420	I kind of find crying to be just another form of letting out frustration. Not a very attractive form, but a way of saying you can't take it anymore. Like a family member dies and you have to mourn, or your relationship with someone ends so suddenly and there's no chance of getting it back. But if you're gonna cry for something stupid like if someone punches you in the arm too hard, I will call you a ***. <_< In this case, I see it as a sign of weakness. One rule I live by; never let them see you bleed. __________________ I don't mean to dwell But I can't help myself When I feel the vibe And taste a memory Of a time in life When years seemed to stand still

10-10-2007, 05:59 PM	#16 (permalink)
Urban Hat€monger ? The Sexual Intellectual Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Somewhere cooler than you Posts: 18,605	Only when someone spills your beer __________________ Urb's RYM Stuff Most people sell their soul to the devil, but the devil sells his soul to Nick Cave.

10-10-2007, 10:38 PM	#20 (permalink)
Trauma snickers Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: detroit Posts: 2,194	Why would it not be cool for a guy to cry is a better question. __________________ A mi no me importa nada Para mi la vida es un sueño

10-10-2007, 07:32 PM	#17 (permalink)
youngjg Groupie Join Date: Oct 2007 Posts: 5	its okay for a dude to cry, depending on what its over. if u're in love and get ur heartbroken, i think that'll b enough grounds

10-10-2007, 07:47 PM	#18 (permalink)
Duke Of Slander Slanderous Duke Join Date: Oct 2007 Posts: 87	Serious emotional upheaval (family dying, suddn break up ect.) it's ok Petty **** = puss I haven't cried in a while, I get destructive when I'm angry, sad, ect. I prefer to put that energy into my pyromania