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Originally Posted by Emo_Princess_I_<3_MCR_<33 (Post 407364)

HAHAHAHAHAA.......omg I fell on the floor after I read that... that is sooooo going on my quotes....
I like em too..but I am a girl soo does that count...??

Long enough sig...?

It's pretty annoying when anyone cries.

hmmm. How about phrasing this a different way.

Who here has [b]never[/b[ cried? and if you did, did you feel ashamed of yourself?

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Originally Posted by holdyoualways (Post 405891)

here's why i thought of this
yesterday i got in a little...tiffy with my boyfriend & was kind of pissed off at him & he pretty much assumed we were gonna break up & decided to leave me several messages on my voicemail, one of which he was crying in
now this isnt the first time ive heard/seen him cry & in a way i find it kind of endearing that hes not afraid to cry, being a guy & all
but im curious as to what is exactly is the right amount of crying a guy can do before people start considering him to be a total puss
i personally dont see anything wrong with it, although an excessive amount of male tears will probably make me uncomfortable
im very intrigued to see if any male members here have shed a tear or two without being ashamed of it
:)

crying is a human thing- not a female thing. everyone cries sometime, or at least FEELS like it. if you hold back your tears, you're not doing so because you're a big, tough, man; you're doing so because you're afraid to show weakness. that gets you heart attacks. men that don't express their emotions are more likely to get heart attacks and have other stress-related problems. it's like a boiling pot: you can put a lid on it, but one way or another, sooner or later, it will come out.

i've cried in front of my girlfriends before and i've never been ashamed.

Heart attacks are manly.

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Originally Posted by MoonlitSunshine (Post 407706)

hmmm. How about phrasing this a different way.

Who here has [b]never[/b[ cried? and if you did, did you feel ashamed of yourself?

too long

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Originally Posted by Fortress of Sound (Post 407721)

men that don't express their emotions are more likely to get heart attacks and have other stress-related problems.

really?
hmm, i didnt know that
fun fact of the day!

My cat died. I cried then :( Oh and when i found out Natalie was pregnant but er...it wasn't in the good context and there was a bottle of cherry involved.

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Originally Posted by RezZ (Post 407584)

Long enough sig...?

Yeah I think so......

I am probably not going to add anymore.....unless I take some away first...

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Originally Posted by Kevorkian Logic (Post 407508)

no, not at all. Unless you like pussy, you are straight. I'm hoping you are not that dense though.

Umm..........I do....and I think That might just be why I am Bisexual...... But you know I could be wrong

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Originally Posted by littleknowitall (Post 407748)

Oh and when i found out Natalie was pregnant but er...it wasn't in the good context and there was a bottle of cherry involved.

well thats perfectly understandable
if i ever in the future find out im preggers i think ill have a nervous breakdown & then commence with world war 3

I'm too bitter to cry, I wish I wasn't but I'm pretty heartless.