Are you serious? I've been unhappy many times in the last 4-5 years. Although there was lot of contributing factors. But I believe that everything happens for a reason so hopefully I can try to be happy.

I am absolutely serious. I think most people take bad occurences in their life and look at it from a negative light. I always looked at it as a chance to improve my life. I seriously contemplate everything in a positive light because my dad instilled that in me at a very early age. You can dwell on something or you can change something. I always prefer to change something and make it a positive.

It ain't cool for anyone to cry because what is cool anyway? It's nowt but a human construct that has no bearing on reality. If you wanna cry, cry. If you don't, don't. If you wanna be macho, be macho. If you wanna skip around with flowers in your hair quoting poetry, skip around with flowers in your hair quoting poetry. Do whatever your every fibre wants you to do. F**k what anyone else thinks. Is this cool, is that cool, is this acceptable, is that wrong, these are meaningless questions. Life is simple when you follow your heart and not anothers.

Fred I agree and I don't like boggin others down with my problems and plus lifes too short for me not to be pisitive in my approach. Plus its a power thing and I grew up in manipulation so I wont allow those situations now that I'm old. Only person I cried with was my gram cause she's a sweetheart

yea, it's totally cool for guys to cry.