DearJenny

So this is a strange situation...
The assistant manager at my old work place started hitting on me. He is 30-years-old(I'm only 18!). I found old at the end of my employment there that he had like an "older man-crush" on me. To be honest, I thought he was a really cool guy, we hung out a few times outside of work but always in groups with other coworkers.

Well by the time I found he liked me, I was already in a relationship and have been ever since. Well all of a sudden my assistant manager(lets call him Ed) pops up out of nowhere and is Im'ing me and texting me and eventually it starts getting creepy.

He has said stuff like "whatever happens between us is completely off the record", "You know you like the attention", and at one point I texted him at 1 in the morning with "you already in bed old man?" and he responded "you wish." Now I'm sure we'd all agree thats a bit creepy since he knows I'm in a relationship and he ignores the fact there is a twelve year age gap between the two of us.

Well I told him the other day I thought he was being creepy and he said we should speak face to face because he doesnt feel I'm really getting what he's saying through texting and such. I told him I'd let him know when I was free. I also said it would be a public place. Thing is that he's gotten in my head, like I cant stop thinking about the things that he has said.

So a few questions:
A)What would you do in this situation?
B)He's working tomorrow, should I go speak with him then?
C)Any other suggestions helpful.

I've thought about baiting him and getting him for sexual harassment. Or baiting him then meeting up with him just to kick him in the balls then remind him if he tried to get me for assault I'll press sexual harassment charges, that would be a little off-the-record retribution and I think I'd enjoy option B more.

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