Is It Possible For A Male And Female To Be Friends??

DearJenny · 06-04-2007, 05:22 PM

I think its all a matter or pursuing things. There are guy friends that I would definately sleep with and I know a few that would with me in a heartbeat. But I'm in a relationship that I never dream of tainting and I choose not to pursue that sort of intimacy with my friends. In short, yes it is possible.

Kevorkian Logic · 06-04-2007, 06:24 PM

But what if the friends who want to sleep with you choose to pursue that sort of intimacy? Do you find it that easy to say no under all circumstances?

Because I never dreamed of "tainting" one of my relationships until due to a series of bad circumstances, where I had just gotten in a fight with him, I was about 7 hours away, and I was very high, and it just kinda happed with this guy who had been trying to get with me despite the my constant reminding to him that I had a bf, whom I loved.

06-04-2007, 05:22 PM	#81 (permalink)
DearJenny Raptor Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Metro Detroit, MI Posts: 1,321	I think its all a matter or pursuing things. There are guy friends that I would definately sleep with and I know a few that would with me in a heartbeat. But I'm in a relationship that I never dream of tainting and I choose not to pursue that sort of intimacy with my friends. In short, yes it is possible. __________________ So here's to living life miserable. And here's to all the lonely stories that I've told. Maybe drinking wine will validate my sorrow. Every man needs a muse and mine could be the bottle.

06-04-2007, 06:24 PM	#82 (permalink)
Kevorkian Logic Imperfectly Perfect Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: North Carolina Posts: 1,290	But what if the friends who want to sleep with you choose to pursue that sort of intimacy? Do you find it that easy to say no under all circumstances? Because I never dreamed of "tainting" one of my relationships until due to a series of bad circumstances, where I had just gotten in a fight with him, I was about 7 hours away, and I was very high, and it just kinda happed with this guy who had been trying to get with me despite the my constant reminding to him that I had a bf, whom I loved. __________________ "it is only through a limitless accumulation of the imperfect that a certain type of perfection can be attained"