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03-09-2007, 09:01 AM | #11 (permalink) | |
They call me Tundra Boy
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1. By sensitive you mean "wussy". See bolded texts. Seriously, which guys wait to be asked out? 'Emotional cripple' does not equate to 'sensitive', maybe you're confusing the two? 2. By sensitive you mean "pug ugly". Jibber has beaten me to it but I'll elaborate. It's human nature to be competitive in one way or another, and this competitive nature expresses itself in many ways. When a guy sees another guy who is better looking, better dressed and more charming to women than he is a self-defense mechanism kicks in and the first guy thinks "what a jerk, I bet he's really shallow/self-centred/vain/dumb" to try to justify why that guy is doing better than they are. Good-looking guys are more successful at getting the girl, whether the guy be smart, dumb, nice or nasty. That's the only real link I've ever seen between somebody's persona and their 'success' with the opposite sex. Beyond that, I've seen no relationship between personality and pulling status. Except for that really antisocial people don't tend to get any. |
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03-09-2007, 11:09 AM | #12 (permalink) |
The Sexual Intellectual
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I reckon that every guy should turn down at least one hot woman in their lives.
It`ll do your self esteem the world of good.
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03-09-2007, 12:07 PM | #14 (permalink) |
The Sexual Intellectual
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Dunno about that , it`s never happened.
Try asking oojay when he comes back he might know.
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03-09-2007, 12:39 PM | #15 (permalink) |
The Forums Sadistic Ghost
Join Date: Mar 2005
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... i turned down a dating my friend squeek, she wanted me to come out of the closet about the fact i was bi, but i explained to her is kinda hard when my mum would probably throw me out, maybe not, but i worry about it, and i feel it best if my mum(and at the time) my friends did not know, and she is hot as well.. too bad now though, shes not crushing on me any more, but we are still friend so it presevered our friendship
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03-09-2007, 01:28 PM | #16 (permalink) |
Imperfectly Perfect
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^ good for you, a bit off topic though. (Why is all this bi stuff coming out all of a sudden? What girl hasn't hooked up with another girl? I know very few that haven't or don't want to)
Anyhow, i'm not going to say looks don't matter initially, they do. But if you are going to be in the vicinity with certain people for a while, personality tends to matter more. I know my tendency is to date geeks (not nerds), just because I can talk to them a lot easier and don't care about sports (I follow the ACC basketball, that's it). And I kind of feel like that is an overall truth, there are probably exceptions though.
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