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11-03-2006, 11:18 PM | #1051 (permalink) |
The Sexual Intellectual
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There`s nothing selfish about asking because there is no guarantee that the other person would say yes to it.
I`d look at it like this , what would not asking gain? If I was facing losing someone then I wouldn`t really have much to lose by suggesting what you say. At least that way i`d have a straight answer & be able to move on with my life.
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11-03-2006, 11:19 PM | #1052 (permalink) |
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well my parents for one thing
they dont like me dating at this age since im "only 17" which is why waiting till im 18 would solve so many problems! i can do whatever the hell i want & get out from my mothers thumb
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11-03-2006, 11:22 PM | #1053 (permalink) |
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Man, I would hate that. As far as I'm aware my mum doesn't care what I do as long as I'm sensible about it. And I agree with Urban, you won't lose anything by asking. If you really have to wait, well, you'd be better off finding out now if he will wait too.
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11-03-2006, 11:22 PM | #1054 (permalink) | |
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i seriously thought i was gonna be a total bitch if i asked him to hold out & wait for me technically right now were "on a break" because were both majorly stressed out & just needed some space which is why i have doubts about what his answer would actually be & hes one of those guys that has high expectations & doesnt even really believe that i care about him for the sole fact that we rarely (never is a better word) see each other so i jsut think if it comes down to him waiting another year & a half till i get my butt outta here or if something happens where our communication is cut off, hes just gonna say screw it & not even bother & i wouldnt blame him ok im rambling now, im sorry
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11-03-2006, 11:27 PM | #1055 (permalink) |
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You`re doing the typical girl thing & making excuses for him before you even have an answer out of him.
If things are as bad as you say they are a straight answer will either put your mind at rest or end it once & for all. Unless of course you are one of these girls that prolong these sort of situations to get as much drama out of it as possible (i work with a girl who`s been off & on with her boyfriend for about 2 years & hearing her whine about it is getting real old now). So yeah , suck up your pride & get an answer.
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11-03-2006, 11:39 PM | #1056 (permalink) | |
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im just scurred of the answer! well thanks for the help, anyways, it eased my mind a bit
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11-03-2006, 11:54 PM | #1057 (permalink) |
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Kill 'em. Kill'em now. Kill 'em before they get too close.
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11-04-2006, 12:49 AM | #1059 (permalink) |
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Get that love bullsh*t outta your head before it's too late!
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