Hah, it really was **** wasn't it. I'm not sure how to say "I'm comfortable with strangers coming up and speaking to me if they have anything they want to say and I want to make them comfortable with doing it" without sounding like some idiot hippie or, like you said, pretentious twat. The thought in my head feels practical, but every time I write it down it looks like I'm being some idiot luvvy. How the hell am I meant to write it?

Hmmm, thinking about it we got a number of responses from women to that bulletin and none from men. Well, if it only entices women to come and talk to us then maybe that counts as a result...