good :) just goes to show, not everyone tries to bring out the bad in everything.. or add bad to everything for that matter.

are you joking? you consider yourself a deprived child because you didn't get video games? kids born into disease and poverty are deprived. not you.

The only bullshit around here is you. EIMP didn't call anyone a slut. She didn't say she considered anyone a slut. She referenced common public opinion. You're trying to argue with common public opinion by having a go at someone who's on the same side as you? Raine. Think before you post.

:p: thanks again fal!.. your my hero :love: hahahahaha:beer:

I just read the short lived 'babies' thread and . . . well, my fear just got magnified by ten.
I've always wanted to have kids, still do actually. But when it comes to kids, I guess my biggest fear is that I won't be able to give my kid(s) love, attention and all that other important stuff necessaryfor a kid to grow into a well rounded adult. Sure I could give my kid money and trips around the world and stuff. big deal. But I guess sometimes it's the small stuff that makes the real difference.
I guess what I want is to have kids and have them love me rather hate me.
I don't think I'd be able to live if I have the same sorta relationship I have with my kids as i do with my mom.

I'm not afraid of death/reincarnation/afterlife/whatever you wanna call it, but I am afraid of leaving this plane of existance and not have anyone to care for my kids in the wake of my absence.

thats veyr natureal fear.. more then likely you'll have it until you actually have them rised. I'm sure that every mother fears if they'll rise there children/child right.. and if they can give them all the emotional things.

It is a natural fear and in your case Raine...nothing to worry about.

The fact that you worry about it, proves you will probably make a caring mother.

As for your concerns regarding your relationship with your future children, taking into consideration the relationship you have with your mother...well that's entirely within your control.

the fear my be normal but I'm almost certain my response to it these past few years aren't.


if being a bad parent iwas genetic i inherited the ability from my mom.
if being a 'naive parent' was genetic I inherited it from my dad
worst genes ever if you ask me

Sheesh, It was in jest. I know damn well that I'm really lucky to have what I have, I was just saying that I was deprived of Consoles.

heh me reading your post about babies made me wanna make the thread. dont understand why someone would make the concious decision to have a baby come outta their clacker, may result in death, and i personally don't believe that someone can raise another human being without making them hate you, or at least be psychotic and delusional. too much advice and they feel suffocated and think you're trying to control them, too little and they dont know what to do and end up being a priest or some other pointless form of existance. my opinion, not trying to stir anything up or get anyone pissed, im free to say what i want.