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Old 05-03-2006, 11:42 PM   #81 (permalink)
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NICE, personally I would have gone for the 10 hour option. You gotta hit these criminals hard first time.
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Old 05-04-2006, 08:43 AM   #82 (permalink)
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This is an interesting question...
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i've seen over the years as have many men and women, that a man can sleep with 5 people in a run of lets say 5 years, and a women can sleep with the same amount or one more.. maybe even less. Yet why does the women get called a whore, slut? and the guy get's nothing?
Because, despite the success of women's lib movements in the last hundred or so years, western society and culture (and most non-western society) is still largely patriarchal and many the values of the society have been generated over a long period of even more severe patriarchy. Because of this, the accepted views on male and female sexual behaviour will tend to be more forgiving to males. Numerically, it makes no real to assume that men, overall, could have a higher average number of heterosexual partners during any time period than women do, yet figures which say that men do tend to have more heterosexual partners during their lifetime continue to be given all over the place.

Granted, the figures are just that, figures, but they reflect a case of denial on the part of guys - the denial that for every woman he has slept with, chances are that each woman he had slept with just as many other guys (or more); for each girlfriend that they cheat on who never finds out, there were probably as many girlfriends that cheated on him without him every finding out. Many men would find this difficult to accept, so chances are they'll fall into denial and not accept that, as a mean average, the total number of heterosexual female sexual encounters MUST be equal to the total number of male ones.

As (due to the patriarchal nature of our societies) cultural values will tend to favour the male viewpoint, so this denial becomes accepted, even though its untrue, and with it the idea that its normal for women to have less sex than men and normal for them to have less sexual partners than men do.

Truth is it can't be normal, its not even POSSIBLE - if you do the (extremely simple) maths - for women to have less heterosexual sex than men.

But the idea of what is accepted as 'normal' (and acceptable) remains and the women who are seen to be breaking this code of what is acceptable are given derogatory labels, while men who do the same thing tend not to.

There are other factors, like how much easier it is for women to suffer problems associated with sex (unwanted pregnancies, contracting STDs etc.) but these are personal risks, which are only taken to have weight because of the dominant patriarchal viewpoint. Really, they count just as much for men and women.

That's my answer.

(patriarchal = male dominated - men tend to have more money, power, influence etc. in the society and as the morals and cultures of the society are most influenced by the rich and powerful, morals and cultures will tend to favour the male perspective.)
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When Pete plays it is 100% live , your music if that's what you call it doesn't sound so good either? so you can't really critercize can you ?
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Old 05-04-2006, 09:32 AM   #83 (permalink)
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yeah, hate to remind you, but you kinda got whipped like bitches in vietnam...
and croatia has won the last and most importaint war, the one for our independance....
True on your independance, took ya' long enough! You still, even though you've claimed independance, don't own your entire counrty! Political discussions continue with Bosnia and Herzegovina over several small disputed sections of the boundary related to the 1999 border agreement. You've only been an independent country for about 14-15 years! America's been kickin' a** for two hundred-thirty years!!

Vietnam wasn't a war, 'nam was a policing action and is still in effect! We still occupy Vietnam and Korea to control their unwarranted outbursts of stupidity. We burned down almost half of Vietnam! They killed a few of us, what'd we do? Killed them back! Burned most of 'em to death!
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Old 05-04-2006, 09:39 AM   #84 (permalink)
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i've seen over the years as have many men and women, that a man can sleep with 5 people in a run of lets say 5 years, and a women can sleep with the same amount or one more.. maybe even less. Yet why does the women get called a whore, slut? and the guy get's nothing?
I can make it simple. It's biology. I can wash my d**k off when i'm done f**kin' and you'll never know the difference. Where as, you can douche all you want, doesn't change the fact that ya'll get looser every time. Brings down the quality and demand for the product! Besides, I don't wanna have to think of who else has been there, I eat at that restaurant!!
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Old 05-04-2006, 09:57 AM   #85 (permalink)
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I can make it simple. It's biology. I can wash my d**k off when i'm done f**kin' and you'll never know the difference. Where as, you can douche all you want, doesn't change the fact that ya'll get looser every time. Brings down the quality and demand for the product! Besides, I don't wanna have to think of who else has been there, I eat at that restaurant!!

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Old 05-04-2006, 10:11 AM   #86 (permalink)
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Granted, the figures are just that, figures, but they reflect a case of denial on the part of guys - the denial that for every woman he has slept with, chances are that each woman he had slept with just as many other guys (or more); for each girlfriend that they cheat on who never finds out, there were probably as many girlfriends that cheated on him without him every finding out. Many men would find this difficult to accept, so chances are they'll fall into denial and not accept that, as a mean average, the total number of heterosexual female sexual encounters MUST be equal to the total number of male ones.
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Besides, I don't wanna have to think of who else has been there, I eat at that restaurant!!
Yeah, that's another way of putting it.
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Old 05-04-2006, 10:40 AM   #88 (permalink)
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I can make it simple. It's biology. I can wash my d**k off when i'm done f**kin' and you'll never know the difference. Where as, you can douche all you want, doesn't change the fact that ya'll get looser every time. Brings down the quality and demand for the product! Besides, I don't wanna have to think of who else has been there, I eat at that restaurant!!

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Old 05-04-2006, 10:45 AM   #89 (permalink)
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I hate the whole **** in Northern Ireland about ****ing religion.

Like it matters! Thats why I didn't say I was protestant at first, addidass. My views may seem typically protestant but it is because I think things are better that way. I am not secterian or extreme unionist and I do not support the UVF or anything, don't worry
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Old 05-04-2006, 10:48 AM   #90 (permalink)
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