My first contact with my Dad (memory, Ching)

TrampInaTux · 04-12-2006, 03:14 PM

I have to spread this to as many people as I can. I am shocked, amazed, upset, happy and glad all at the same time. This morning I had a dream about my Dad. He handed me a videotape and said "watch this, Bab." I never saw his face because in dreams that you have about those who have passed you are supposed to never be able to see their face. So the tape started playing and it was my Dad holding my 2 year old half brother Marco. I could see my Dad fully this time and my guess is that I could only see him fully because it was being played through a TV. My Dad found a loophole through the system. So Dad said "Hello Bab, we are all okay here." Then he said to my brother to say hello to me and my half brother did. Then he said to my brother "Say I'm out of nappies, I'm in pants now." So my brother repeated what my Dad had told me to say. Then it cut the camera to my step mother and half sister. My step mother said hello then the camera cut back to Dad who told me that he loved me then I woke up.

Now, I was still quite upset about this seen as this has been the first dream I have had about my Dad but I just thought of it as a silly dream. Until my Step Mom rang and I explained it to her. About 2 hours after we had spoke on the phone she text me. She asked me in the text if I knew that my half brother is now indeed going out of nappies and he is using pants. I didn't know this.

So there is no explanation I can give for this. I was skeptical before, I didn't believe in heaven or any of that crap. But now I firmly believe that my Dad is watching over me and the rest of my family.

ladyluckrules · 04-12-2006, 03:21 PM

That's lovely to have had that dream.
It must have been a very surreal experience.

TheBig3 · 04-12-2006, 03:27 PM

Well I suppose thats good news. I don't know too much about you hobo, how long has it been since he passed. And how old are you, i honestly know nothing about you.

TrampInaTux · 04-12-2006, 03:27 PM

I'm 15, and he passed 8 days before last Christmas.

TheBig3 · 04-12-2006, 03:37 PM

Ouch, sorry man, well, im glad thigns are turning out better now.

TrampInaTux · 04-12-2006, 03:43 PM

Unfortunately they're not turning out better. It's nice to get some solid facts that my Dad is watching over me, but it doesn't bring him back. And now I suppose I'll get contacted by all my family wanting to know, which I'm glad of because I think it's great news but also it's going to drive them all to tears and shock again.

blackTshirt · 04-12-2006, 03:47 PM

oh man
dreams are like a blessing, sometimes

they're the only connection i have with my boyfriend for now

and i'm sure they're a sign as long as you give them importance... as in.. if there's something you think you oughta do and this dream could be like an impulse.... you know what i mean

i'm really a dream person

TrampInaTux · 04-12-2006, 03:53 PM

I'm going to sound like a crazy person now but this wasn't a dream-he spoke to me. I won't have a go here but can someone give me an argument against my theory? Can anyone try and tell me that I didn't speak to my Dad and prove that I never?

judas_priest · 04-12-2006, 04:10 PM

I'm sorry that your dad passed away. That must be hard for you.
I believe in that kind of thing though, I'm sure he did speak to you.

right-track · 04-12-2006, 04:22 PM

Whether he actually spoke to you in a dream or not, is I believe, irrelevant.
What is more important, is that you have him in your mind and as long as you do, the memory of your Father lives on.

As far as I'm concerned, you spoke to your Father.

04-12-2006, 03:14 PM	#1 (permalink)
TrampInaTux that's my war face. Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 1,418	My first contact with my Dad I have to spread this to as many people as I can. I am shocked, amazed, upset, happy and glad all at the same time. This morning I had a dream about my Dad. He handed me a videotape and said "watch this, Bab." I never saw his face because in dreams that you have about those who have passed you are supposed to never be able to see their face. So the tape started playing and it was my Dad holding my 2 year old half brother Marco. I could see my Dad fully this time and my guess is that I could only see him fully because it was being played through a TV. My Dad found a loophole through the system. So Dad said "Hello Bab, we are all okay here." Then he said to my brother to say hello to me and my half brother did. Then he said to my brother "Say I'm out of nappies, I'm in pants now." So my brother repeated what my Dad had told me to say. Then it cut the camera to my step mother and half sister. My step mother said hello then the camera cut back to Dad who told me that he loved me then I woke up. Now, I was still quite upset about this seen as this has been the first dream I have had about my Dad but I just thought of it as a silly dream. Until my Step Mom rang and I explained it to her. About 2 hours after we had spoke on the phone she text me. She asked me in the text if I knew that my half brother is now indeed going out of nappies and he is using pants. I didn't know this. So there is no explanation I can give for this. I was skeptical before, I didn't believe in heaven or any of that crap. But now I firmly believe that my Dad is watching over me and the rest of my family.

04-12-2006, 03:21 PM	#2 (permalink)
ladyluckrules D: Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: England Posts: 507	That's lovely to have had that dream. It must have been a very surreal experience. __________________ AHOY SAILOR

04-12-2006, 03:27 PM	#3 (permalink)
TheBig3 killedmyraindog Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: Boston, Massachusetts Posts: 11,172	Well I suppose thats good news. I don't know too much about you hobo, how long has it been since he passed. And how old are you, i honestly know nothing about you. __________________ I've moved to a new address

04-12-2006, 03:37 PM	#5 (permalink)
TheBig3 killedmyraindog Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: Boston, Massachusetts Posts: 11,172	Ouch, sorry man, well, im glad thigns are turning out better now. __________________ I've moved to a new address

04-12-2006, 03:47 PM	#7 (permalink)
blackTshirt The Randomness Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: romania.. shut up Posts: 854	oh man dreams are like a blessing, sometimes they're the only connection i have with my boyfriend for now and i'm sure they're a sign as long as you give them importance... as in.. if there's something you think you oughta do and this dream could be like an impulse.... you know what i mean i'm really a dream person __________________ My rims never spin, to the contrary You'll find that they're quite stationary.

04-12-2006, 03:27 PM	#4 (permalink)
TrampInaTux that's my war face. Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 1,418	I'm 15, and he passed 8 days before last Christmas.

04-12-2006, 03:43 PM	#6 (permalink)
TrampInaTux that's my war face. Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 1,418	Unfortunately they're not turning out better. It's nice to get some solid facts that my Dad is watching over me, but it doesn't bring him back. And now I suppose I'll get contacted by all my family wanting to know, which I'm glad of because I think it's great news but also it's going to drive them all to tears and shock again.

04-12-2006, 03:53 PM	#8 (permalink)
TrampInaTux that's my war face. Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 1,418	I'm going to sound like a crazy person now but this wasn't a dream-he spoke to me. I won't have a go here but can someone give me an argument against my theory? Can anyone try and tell me that I didn't speak to my Dad and prove that I never?

04-12-2006, 04:10 PM	#9 (permalink)
judas_priest Metal Maiden Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 644	I'm sorry that your dad passed away. That must be hard for you. I believe in that kind of thing though, I'm sure he did speak to you.

04-12-2006, 04:22 PM	#10 (permalink)
right-track Atchin' Akai Join Date: May 2005 Location: Unamerica Posts: 8,723	Whether he actually spoke to you in a dream or not, is I believe, irrelevant. What is more important, is that you have him in your mind and as long as you do, the memory of your Father lives on. As far as I'm concerned, you spoke to your Father.