So Hot Right Now (punk, rock, single, career, quote)

jibber · 01-25-2006, 11:37 PM

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Originally Posted by explosions-in-my-pants

this is a hard thing for me to talk about. not because its sad or anything, only because my goal doesn't really seem like much, seems simple.

i'm out of school, and could go to art school if i wanted. I might just go and do something like hair dressing just for the hell of it, you know just in case my actaul goal doesn't come to work out.

my goal, to be a wonderful girl-friend, wonderful wife, and a wonderful mother. all of which stay at home. Maybe work out of the home i don't know. but call me old fashiond but i would love to be a stay at home wife and clean the house all of the time, cook raise the kiddies. i can still work like before the kids, and once there in school, but this is what i want..

my problem- no one wants a house wife, no one wants a almost 19 year girl that wants those things. Men now want independent women that work 9-5 and can just as easy bring home the bacon. which i can easily do, i just don't want to.

sure i can be the loving wife/girl friend and still work, but i want to cook and its not that i want to do this to make some one else happy to make sure there needs are met, cause this type of thing is what makes me happy too.

go ahead poke fun! you know you bloody well want to

meh, I could never see myself living that life, but hey, whatever floats your boat. if you're happy, thats all that matters. Although, you're only 18, are you sure you're ready to start a family and settle down? I'm only asking this because my own values and plans for myself are pretty much on the opposite end of the spectrum, so it's hard for me to understand.

**Scarlett O'Hara** · 01-25-2006, 11:38 PM

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Originally Posted by explosions-in-my-pants

this is a hard thing for me to talk about. not because its sad or anything, only because my goal doesn't really seem like much, seems simple.

i'm out of school, and could go to art school if i wanted. I might just go and do something like hair dressing just for the hell of it, you know just in case my actaul goal doesn't come to work out.

my goal, to be a wonderful girl-friend, wonderful wife, and a wonderful mother. all of which stay at home. Maybe work out of the home i don't know. but call me old fashiond but i would love to be a stay at home wife and clean the house all of the time, cook raise the kiddies. i can still work like before the kids, and once there in school, but this is what i want..

my problem- no one wants a house wife, no one wants a almost 19 year girl that wants those things. Men now want independent women that work 9-5 and can just as easy bring home the bacon. which i can easily do, i just don't want to.

sure i can be the loving wife/girl friend and still work, but i want to cook and its not that i want to do this to make some one else happy to make sure there needs are met, cause this type of thing is what makes me happy too.

go ahead poke fun! you know you bloody well want to

**** yeah. That's wicked girl. If that's what make you happy then screw anyone who opposes it. Being a mom is a very special occupation and I know from my mom raising me and not working that it paid off, she sacrificied her job to me me who I am today. She doesn't regret it one inch.

I can imagine your sitution and because you have the dedication and passion to do this, you will be a wonderful wife, mother, woman.

jibber · 01-25-2006, 11:40 PM

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Originally Posted by Vanilla

I reckon that you grow out of dreams, and that eventually you are going to find one that lights your fire and makes you burn with passion.

About travelling, I feel you sister! I told myself yesterday before I knew my exam results that I was going to travel after a year of working because I am so so dying to get out there in the world and experience different cultures. But now, as soon as I graduate I'm out of this country and straight to London to work then move on from there.

You will get a degree hun, you've shown that you've got determination and confidence and whatever you aim for you are going to exceed in. I've always noticed an elite passion you have for life and it's opportunities, e.g. skiing, so when you know for sure what you're studying for is right, you will ace it.

Ever since I turned 18 things started to change, and I'm really seeing how awesome life can be when you make the most of it. **** bird flu, I will accept it with open arms as long as I get a chance to complete a couple of goals.

no no, it's not that I can't get a degree, I just don't want to. I'll have a diploma when I graduate, and I'm sure I could easily get a degree in a field like engineering or business, and be very successful with it. I just don't want to. I don't want to spend a lot of time in school right now, I figure this is the only time in my life that I'm old enough to live my own life, and young enough to do it with no obligations, and I plan to take full advantage of that.

**Scarlett O'Hara** · 01-25-2006, 11:41 PM

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Originally Posted by PerFeCTioNThrUSileNCe

yeah, thats one of the things thats not so "rockin" right now, but im pulling through.

That's ok, school isn't for everyone, but it does help in the long run. It give you more options if you change your mind.

Good luck with your music career, starting young always helps.

Random/useless fact: the Yellowcard drummer started drumming when he was 5 years-old.

**Scarlett O'Hara** · 01-25-2006, 11:45 PM

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Originally Posted by jibber

no no, it's not that I can't get a degree, I just don't want to. I'll have a diploma when I graduate, and I'm sure I could easily get a degree in a field like engineering or business, and be very successful with it. I just don't want to. I don't want to spend a lot of time in school right now, I figure this is the only time in my life that I'm old enough to live my own life, and young enough to do it with no obligations, and I plan to take full advantage of that.

That's wicked! I understand now, I think alot of people miss out on that side of life because they are too focussed on their careers and future. Good luck, have fun and get drunk!

explosions-in-my-pants · 01-25-2006, 11:54 PM

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Originally Posted by jibber

Although, you're only 18, are you sure you're ready to start a family and settle down?

its not that i plane on starting a family with the next guy i meet or anything. more like a couple more relationships down the road. or if my next relstionahip is great planning can be made sure. but i don't mean right away, i mean thats my goal, this is what i want for my life, i just don't know when its going to happen.

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Originally Posted by Vanilla

I can imagine your sitution and because you have the dedication and passion to do this, you will be a wonderful wife, mother, woman.

thank you

i think i will be a awesome mom!
oh yea i forgot to say, half the reason why i don't want to go to art school or anything is because even if i can't draw that great, and i know i can't paint, and i can make sexy outfits and design nice xloths, i fear in going to school instead of opening up my mind that it will change my style and i will not realizing of course but kind of pick of random people's styles that aren't my own and thus becoming just what schools want a cloan.. and i don't want to be like everyone else, i prefer my own style even if its not that great i like it. and its not that i think everyone picks up other people's styles, but i know what i'm like and i know i would. anyways teachers never liked me and i never liked teachers. I don't like school and always hated it, even art class when i was one of the top students (not for my drawings or anything just my style and how i always did my own thing) and i just hated having to do projects and it has to be done then, and then i always end up with something i never liked just because i can't do it in the time period or whatever that i want thus making me mad and ignorate to people because i'm pissed at the job i do (i'm not a perfectionist i just like things done a kind of way) but ya i don't have time for school!. thats it thats my point school makes me mad and bores me beyond belief.

jibber · 01-26-2006, 12:15 AM

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Originally Posted by explosions-in-my-pants

its not that i plane on starting a family with the next guy i meet or anything. more like a couple more relationships down the road. or if my next relstionahip is great planning can be made sure. but i don't mean right away, i mean thats my goal, this is what i want for my life, i just don't know when its going to happen.

ahh, well in that case, I think that's great. being a mom is easily the hardest job you can take on, but it sounds like it'll make you really happy, so good on ya.

oh yeah, and from what you've said, I'd advise you not to go to art school. no matter what you're studying, you're first year will consist of absolutely nothing but rigid assignments, still lifes, and drawing from models. It's a great thing for people who are really serious about art, but if it isn't your lifes passion, you'll hate it. I had to learn that the hard way, but hey, it's just another learning experience.

explosions-in-my-pants · 01-26-2006, 12:18 AM

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Originally Posted by jibber

ahh, well in that case, I think that's great. being a mom is easily the hardest job you can take on, but it sounds like it'll make you really happy, so good on ya.

the way i look at it is, in the very selfish but odd way.. which could be completely normal sounding.. but as long as i'm happy everyone is happy, cause when i'm happy i would do anything and everything for anyone to make them as happy as me.. and when i'm not happy i still try to make them happy, i just don't smile which trust me if you new me it would not be a very good thing. cause then i'd just be like my mother hehe.. and i don't want that..

explosions-in-my-pants · 01-26-2006, 12:19 AM

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Originally Posted by jibber

oh yeah, and from what you've said, I'd advise you not to go to art school. no matter what you're studying, you're first year will consist of absolutely nothing but rigid assignments, still lifes, and drawing from models. It's a great thing for people who are really serious about art, but if it isn't your lifes passion, you'll hate it. I had to learn that the hard way, but hey, it's just another learning experience.

damn you for editing and adding more after i posted.. jk haha! anyways its because it is my life passion that i don't want to go to art school. does that make sense. ??

jibber · 01-26-2006, 12:24 AM

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Originally Posted by explosions-in-my-pants

damn you for editing and adding more after i posted.. jk haha! anyways its because it is my life passion that i don't want to go to art school. does that make sense. ??

makes a whole lot of sense, because it reminds me of me. I love art, and for years it was the one thing that I could see myself doing for the rest of my life and not get sick of it. Now i'm studying fine arts, and I hate it, because it's completely sucking the fun out of it.