love at first sight is it possible, your thoughts?? (rock, members)

madeinNY · 01-16-2006, 03:37 PM

so in saying that how long do you think it takes to fall inlove with someone? - it could be any amount of time...some people fall in love in a day, others it takes years.
do you think you need to know there past to know who the person is today?-no.
do you need to know random things like how they take there coffee to able it?-meh, it depends on if YOU are a psycho or not lol
do you need to know every butten before love is completely there?...butten??

~~Sabgoat~~ · 01-16-2006, 03:39 PM

butten -you know temper (i spell things my way damnit)

Urban Hat€monger ? · 01-16-2006, 03:40 PM

I think it`s different everytime.

For example my mother met my dad while she was on holiday here, she was with him for 2 weeks. Just those 2 weeks convinced her to move here & spend the rest of her life with him , they`ve been together about 35 years now.

On the other hand I knew a girl for years as a friend & it didn`t occure to me that I loved her until years later.

I think it can happen , just as it can happen any other way.

madeinNY · 01-16-2006, 03:41 PM

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Originally Posted by SabrinaMaher

butten -you know temper (i spell things my way damnit)

well in that case, yes.

sleepy jack · 01-16-2006, 04:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SabrinaMaher

so in saying that how long do you think it takes to fall inlove with someone?
do you think you need to know there past to know who the person is today?
do you need to know random things like how they take there coffee to able it?
do you need to know every butten before love is completely there?

so many questions but you know what i'm getting at
and everyone can answer those questions

Depends on the couple, i think if your going to go any further in a relationship you should have a general view of things, no and no.

SittingBehindYou · 01-16-2006, 05:20 PM

Yes, its very possible. There is no reason why it wouldn't be. The problem is it rarely works out. It may seem you're both in love until one falls out then it takes half a life time just to hide the tears.... not that I've had past experience or anything.

Barnard17 · 01-16-2006, 05:27 PM

If it doesn't work out, how can you call it love?

~~Sabgoat~~ · 01-16-2006, 05:31 PM

when you and that pne person both felt the same way.. in that moment, where both of you felt complete in every single way.. and needed nothing more.. even for just a moment.. thats why you call it love..

so i've heard haha

Barnard17 · 01-16-2006, 05:33 PM

But if it ends, was it really Love or just some state of heightened euphoria?

SittingBehindYou · 01-16-2006, 05:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SabrinaMaher

when you and that pne person both felt the same way.. in that moment, where both of you felt complete in every single way.. and needed nothing more.. even for just a moment.. thats why you call it love..

so i've heard haha

damnit... you're so completely right it makes me want to cry again

01-16-2006, 03:37 PM	#31 (permalink)
madeinNY [[la de da diddy da]] Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: NY...duh. Posts: 444	so in saying that how long do you think it takes to fall inlove with someone? - it could be any amount of time...some people fall in love in a day, others it takes years. do you think you need to know there past to know who the person is today?-no. do you need to know random things like how they take there coffee to able it?-meh, it depends on if YOU are a psycho or not lol do you need to know every butten before love is completely there?...butten?? __________________ I cleared out my PM box...I promise. lol

01-16-2006, 03:40 PM	#33 (permalink)
Urban Hat€monger ? The Sexual Intellectual Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Somewhere cooler than you Posts: 18,605	I think it`s different everytime. For example my mother met my dad while she was on holiday here, she was with him for 2 weeks. Just those 2 weeks convinced her to move here & spend the rest of her life with him , they`ve been together about 35 years now. On the other hand I knew a girl for years as a friend & it didn`t occure to me that I loved her until years later. I think it can happen , just as it can happen any other way. __________________ Urb's RYM Stuff Most people sell their soul to the devil, but the devil sells his soul to Nick Cave.

01-16-2006, 05:20 PM	#36 (permalink)
SittingBehindYou Music Addict Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: somewhere erotic.... I mean exotic ;) Posts: 44	Yes, its very possible. There is no reason why it wouldn't be. The problem is it rarely works out. It may seem you're both in love until one falls out then it takes half a life time just to hide the tears.... not that I've had past experience or anything. __________________ The world... "it will be mine, oh yes, it will be mine."

01-16-2006, 05:27 PM	#37 (permalink)
Barnard17 My home? Discabled, Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: Bristol, UK Posts: 204	If it doesn't work out, how can you call it love? __________________ Vita brevis, Occasio praeceps

01-16-2006, 05:33 PM	#39 (permalink)
Barnard17 My home? Discabled, Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: Bristol, UK Posts: 204	But if it ends, was it really Love or just some state of heightened euphoria? __________________ Vita brevis, Occasio praeceps

01-16-2006, 03:39 PM	#32 (permalink)
~~Sabgoat~~ Account Disabled Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 303	butten -you know temper (i spell things my way damnit)

01-16-2006, 05:31 PM	#38 (permalink)
~~Sabgoat~~ Account Disabled Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 303	when you and that pne person both felt the same way.. in that moment, where both of you felt complete in every single way.. and needed nothing more.. even for just a moment.. thats why you call it love.. so i've heard haha