love at first sight is it possible, your thoughts??
 

just as the title says.. is it possible

tell me your thoughts, and every detail you think of this true love..



i will post my future thoughts in the future! :D


thank you, and no fighting.. ;)

I think there can be lust/interest at first sight of course, but not love. Love has to grow, cant just be there like magic. Love isnt too earlier nor too late, if that makes sense.

But! if you are talking in the sense of a mother seeing her child seconds after its born, then yes...love at first sight.

I believe that you can be infatuated at first sight however loving a person takes time. When my wife and I were dating we had a great time together and each had our own residence, when we moved in together it really changed the relationship. We nearly killed each other the first few months because we lived so differently, I leave things laying about so that I can find them when I need them again and she needs everything to have a place. It is overcoming challenges like these that leads to love

I agree wth the previous two statements..., Lust or infatuatement at first sight.., not love...,

love is bull**** and i hate it.

Yes, it is. I've experienced it quite a lot. I don't know about FIRST sight, but you can get to love someone (sort of) just by watching the way that they are with other people, and speaking to them face to face for the first time. And if you happen to fancy them - that's a bonus!!

Love at first sight doesn't exist. It is impossible. You need to at least speak to someone before you can love them. And even then you are a bit stupid to love someone you have only spoke to once. Like Crazy Luv said, Lust at first sight is possible-you can find someone attractive. But apart from that, if you say that you loved someone at first sight, you are either hugely desperate or deluded.

Okay, it's lust then. It just turns into love later on.

Exactly. Case closed!

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what if your already talking to the person, and then later in time see them. but the feelings are already growing before you see the person, and the looks the attraction just finish's the job?

do you think lust and love get confused often to be one in the same?


infatuation do you think thats something that happens more often then love, if so how simple is it?

Lust at first sight.
Not Love.

Lust at first sight. Companionship at first talk. Love does not exist other than as some hyped up Hollywood catchphrase. It refers to a purity which cannot be achieved, and hence is an abstract concept unnatainable by us.

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:eek: I can't believe these words just came from Fal. However, I do agree.

I have a brain. It's just easier not to use it normally :)

fal about your comment before, i would like for you to go as much in depth as you can go on the topic.

Love is an abstract term, it refers to the perfect feeling you can have be it for another, for a thing or some such. Chemicals in the brain set our mood. Certain actions or experiences release certain chemicals, and psychology proves to us that we can begin to auto assosciate sights with the release of chemicals, or such actions (Classical or Operant Conditioning, I forget which). An example would be that eating chocolate releases a feel good chemical into the brain (serotonin?). If you eat chocolate A LOT your brain will assosciate the release of the chemical with the smell and sight of chocolate, so you get the feel good effect from just unwrapping the bar.

It's entirely possible that our brains assosciate a certain look or appearance, due to past experiences, with the release of yummy chemicals. This means that when we see someone that's good by us, we feel good. This could be misinterpreted as "love at first sight". Especially if the chemical release is that extreme.

People seem to get a crush on someone and "fall in love" with them. Then they get a girlfriend, and "love" them. Dump them, find someone else and wouldyabelieve it, they're in "love" again. If "love" is something so easy to come by (ie everytime we experience lust/companionship in greater than before levels) is it really love? Does it sully the term love if we use it so often?

Well couldn't that just be like a crush/puppy love? I mean alot of couples get married and are happy together for the rest of their lives as opposed to 5 months high school flings...

love is a useless crock, unless youre talking about the platonic unconditional love that can exist between family members or friends.

Oh this will be a rather long post...


I DO bealive in love in first site...because if it's meant to be (like serendipity) you'll just love them no matter what...

However...

If the love will be doomed, then, I only bealive in LUST/INFATUATION at first site, because if it's not meant to be, then, love at first site isn't possible.

I'll tell ya why..

Because, if it's meant to be, then it's meant to be, it's written in the stars, if ya know what I'm sayin', 'n' there's no tamperin' with it.

If it's not meant to be, then it's lust/infatuation, you can still be extrememly attracted/lust for that person, just not love them.

So there...not a long post after all...meh...

That post made much sense. (please notice that there is a space. I did not forget a word).

MadeinNY do you still believe in santa clause too?

*scoff* no.

don' start **** go be a prick somewhere else before you turn this bad.. want to ask her sucha question that to me comes off as snotty PM her.. but i don't want such comments in here.. that you.. and only post on love at first sight.. don't bring santa or anything else that not related to this thread into it.. thank you!


oh yea and if you want to start something with me PM me cause i don't want this to turn into a fight in this thread.. thanks!

*likes being defended* thank you sabrina! :]

And. Then there was calm.

Oh im sorry, Ill be sure to PM you each indivual post i make from now on to see if its fine by you ok? I was joking with her for christs sake, honestly these are the type of reasons threads turn into flame wars, because some people get pist off because of a comment and decide to turn into a huge dicussion, and if you wanted to keep this and topic and play the moderator part you probaly should of PMed me, but whatever im done.





I don't believe in love at first sight, i think love is a thing that grows from a relationship with someone you really care about.

so in saying that how long do you think it takes to fall inlove with someone?
do you think you need to know there past to know who the person is today?
do you need to know random things like how they take there coffee to able it?
do you need to know every butten before love is completely there?


so many questions but you know what i'm getting at
and everyone can answer those questions

Raaaaawr!! Fffffft!!

so in saying that how long do you think it takes to fall inlove with someone? - it could be any amount of time...some people fall in love in a day, others it takes years.
do you think you need to know there past to know who the person is today?-no.
do you need to know random things like how they take there coffee to able it?-meh, it depends on if YOU are a psycho or not lol
do you need to know every butten before love is completely there?...butten??

butten -you know temper (i spell things my way damnit)

I think it`s different everytime.

For example my mother met my dad while she was on holiday here, she was with him for 2 weeks. Just those 2 weeks convinced her to move here & spend the rest of her life with him , they`ve been together about 35 years now.

On the other hand I knew a girl for years as a friend & it didn`t occure to me that I loved her until years later.

I think it can happen , just as it can happen any other way.

well in that case, yes. :)

Depends on the couple, i think if your going to go any further in a relationship you should have a general view of things, no and no.

Yes, its very possible. There is no reason why it wouldn't be. The problem is it rarely works out. It may seem you're both in love until one falls out then it takes half a life time just to hide the tears.... not that I've had past experience or anything.

If it doesn't work out, how can you call it love?

when you and that pne person both felt the same way.. in that moment, where both of you felt complete in every single way.. and needed nothing more.. even for just a moment.. thats why you call it love..


so i've heard haha

But if it ends, was it really Love or just some state of heightened euphoria?

damnit... you're so completely right it makes me want to cry again