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Old 01-16-2006, 08:18 PM   #51 (permalink)
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after two years and a month? i m confused
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Old 01-16-2006, 08:19 PM   #52 (permalink)
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how can you put a time frame on falling in love?
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Old 01-16-2006, 08:27 PM   #53 (permalink)
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how can you put a time frame on falling in love?

no, thats not want i was trying to do.
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Old 01-16-2006, 08:28 PM   #54 (permalink)
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but have you been with someone for 2 years and you dont love them?
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Old 01-16-2006, 08:31 PM   #55 (permalink)
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in my opinion love can be slightly "sealed" after...what..two yrs. & a month or so. 1 year & 5 months being in a relationship; 8 months, about, to live with them.
really? sounds like it's exactly what you were trying to do. And if you're gonna move in with someone before you love them, you're in for a shi*tload of problems.
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Old 01-16-2006, 08:32 PM   #56 (permalink)
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but have you been with someone for 2 years and you dont love them?

nope, never been with someone longer than a yr. & four months. never lived with them either. Living with them makes a difference. No, i wasnt in love with them. never been in love.


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really? sounds like it's exactly what you were trying to do. And if you're gonna move in with someone before you love them, you're in for a shi*tload of problems.

well its not. look at my edited version, tryed to explain more of what i was trying to say.
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Old 01-16-2006, 08:33 PM   #57 (permalink)
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none of love can be simple though. some people can tell you they love you even though they dont they just dont want to die lonely and it ends up killing you and all you can do is sit **** girls cause everytime you think about telling someone you love them you dont wanna get hurt again so you just use everyone trying to hurt them like you were hurt even though you didnt mean to but something is wrong with your brain just cause she said she loved you when she didnt
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Old 01-16-2006, 08:36 PM   #58 (permalink)
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^ ouch!

Unrequited love is still love. It is possible to love someone without them loving you in the same way back.
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Old 01-16-2006, 08:37 PM   #59 (permalink)
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none of love can be simple though. some people can tell you they love you even though they dont they just dont want to die lonely and it ends up killing you and all you can do is sit **** girls cause everytime you think about telling someone you love them you dont wanna get hurt again so you just use everyone trying to hurt them like you were hurt even though you didnt mean to but something is wrong with your brain just cause she said she loved you when she didnt
....purely hypothetical situation I'm sure.....
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Old 01-16-2006, 08:38 PM   #60 (permalink)
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actually the situation is kinda different. imagine if like one lion only likes female lions her entire life and then she meets one great lion who is male and suddenly that female lion doesnt know what she likes anymore and you were just part of her trying to figure out what she truly wants. just a ****ing stepping stone.
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