Oh, and this isn't a dig at anybody, but remember that when you're asking questions about how guys think, responses by MEN are far more valuable to you than responses by WOMEN. Men know a lot about how men think, women know a lot about how women think and generally neither men nor women really know much about how the other gender think. They might know which actions get which reactions from the opposite sex, but this doesn't mean that they can really get into their psychology.

What I mean here is that I recommend that the girls assume that most of their female friend's assessments of guy's motivations, feelings, thoughts etc. are largely bull****. I would do the same when my male friends are trying to give advice about how women think. If you want to know about women, ask women, if you want to know about men, ask men. (That's why the thread title is great!).

I would have thought any guy who was dating you would be grateful of any silence.