QUOTE=davidMC1982 I have some questions for the women.

Who's more shallow, men or women? I ask because, in my mind, most men are happy if a girl is vaguely interested, whereas most women won't even look at a man if he's wearing the wrong shoes. Are shoes that important?

Both. Men just are more open about it.

Why will a woman consistently complain about meeting the "wrong type of guy" yet continue to go to the same places, chat up those same "wrong type of" guys etc?

Because they're stupid. I tried different places, good places you know respectable, and I met a guy who seemed really normal and cool, turns out he had a girlfriend who had no idea about us. See? Doesn't matter so much where you meet them.

Why do women try to change men they are dating, when they were obviously attracted to them in the first place? What sort of improvement are you looking for?

No more caps! But usually it's something small that we think matters but won't matter for men to change.

Do you all plan your weddings from the age of 3?

Hell no, not me.

Do all women think a guy who talks to them is trying to get in their knickers?

Basically yes. Can you really say you're not?

When stating, "you should know", do you really think we have any idea what you're talking about?

I don't say that, I just tell them why they screwed up.

Would you sleep with a man who was wearing nothing but socks?

No, I'd sleep with my boyfriend

I don't know about anybody else, but I'm becoming increasingly certain that jr. is the coolest man in the world.

Agreed.

I thought I was the only one that happens to.

*I'm surprised that someone who quotes Neitche (the Doc) would have a dillema/question of that nature, in fact that example is rather basic & primary in our human nature. On a similar note...
What Jr. has said is very wise. As far as the comparison of men and women, what is to debate? We are simply mirrors for one another, recognizing pieces of ourselves in each other. This is also true in symbolism. Look at the Yin and Yang for the yin/yang contain within themselves a portion of the other.They define each other. People and states of mind exhist on all levels. So there are superficial men and women, stately men and women etc...

I don't understand women at all :(

I know better. I just wanted to add something to the topic. 'cause his http://smilies.vidahost.com/otn/angry/pain10.gif girlfriend's titties are

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than mine's! That makes me http://smilies.vidahost.com/otn/angry/newburn.gif!!!!

I am far from cool. I have just been fortunate enough to have lived long enough to learn things.

Women are way more shallow then men.. but men show it more..,making it look like there more shallow.. but there egos are small and more then likely they have lower self esteems then us girls... but again different types of people
no.. but wearing shoes that talk won't help you get anywhere..
because they clearly can't beat or understand there paterens.. and if they say they do, then they haven't been hurt enough by one of those 'wrong guys'. There's something mentally/emotionally wrong with these women..most likely from when they were kids, and there relationships with there fathers has alot to do with there relationships with men. Even if on the outside the girls father seemed good.. and he was a really nice man.. to a womens heart/mind if he's at all distanent.. depending on her personality could have all the effect on her love life in the future.because there something missing in there lives they want fixed.. so to cover it they try to fix something that isn't wrong.. then ofcousre making something wrong.. by then causeing fights within the relationship.. making more un-needed drama and ruining it.. because she can't fix herself first.some yes.. me kind of... i always wanted to get married.. but i don't plan it.. but i can picture it.. :)women with sexual emotion problems most likely think that first.. or women that are fool of them selves.. or because thats all they heard from there mothers growing up.Sometimes.. depending on what the conversation is about.. and half the time you guys do know what were talking about.. but you try to block it out of your minds in hopes that you convice us to forget about the deep emtional bitching conversation you were just talking about.Yes! if he is my boyfriend he can ware what he likes.normaly i would say a girl would only go out with guys like that because she likes to look good standing next to him.. such as.. when your in the mall together holding hands.. a male of female or both walks by and see's you..and you think and know there thinking.. WOW! whats she doing with him she can do so much better..

Because they like meeting bad guys , they just don`t want to admit it.