I Didn't Steal Your Boyfriend...Yet! (singer, jazz, Kiss, bling)

franscar · 11-27-2005, 12:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Vanilla

I was in the pub the other night, and I ran into a guy who tried kissing me about a month ago even though he had a girlfriend, who treated him like ass. So we were chatting away and the gf comes over, he introduces me and she says "yeah I know.", looks around without looking at me in the eyes, and then starts complaining about the pub and walks away. He shrugs and says "sorry she gets mad when I talk to other girls."

Don't think she has a problem to be honest. She really ought to be giving him a kicking if he's trying to get inside your mouth. If his excuse for that is that she treats him badly, then he should grow a set of balls and walk away instead of trying to get a cheap thrill somewhere else.

**Scarlett O'Hara** · 11-27-2005, 08:14 PM

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Originally Posted by franscar

Don't think she has a problem to be honest. She really ought to be giving him a kicking if he's trying to get inside your mouth. If his excuse for that is that she treats him badly, then he should grow a set of balls and walk away instead of trying to get a cheap thrill somewhere else.

You're right, he should get some balls and get out of the relationship, but strangely enough, he really likes her. She treats the relationship casually, she doesn't even like others thinking they are boyfriend and girlfriend. She has slept with other guys during their relationship, so I guess he has got frustrated and has given in to girls at the pubs. But trust me, she was being possessive, she didn't know about him kissing other girls. Even if she did, why would she get possessive when she is the one calling the "casual" shots.

AITA: I completely feel you on this one. Guys are so much easier to get along with, as long as they know you only want to be friends. Girls are bitchy, scatty, and liers. I have three girl mates that I can completely trust, but that's all.

Guys are innocent either, they lie and manipulate girls who are interested in them, just for attention, then when bored, turn them away with lame excuses. Pathetic.

Do guys/girls ever grow up when it comes to relationships? Even just a bit? Because so far I havn't had any.

TheBig3 · 11-27-2005, 08:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Vanilla

Guys are innocent either, they lie and manipulate girls who are interested in them, just for attention, then when bored, turn them away with lame excuses. Pathetic.

That happens on both sides, and I feel bad for no one unless they get ****ed over once and walk away. If you don't tell someone to get ****ed the first time, then you condone what they've done.

I don't think what they've done is right, and honestly I think its selfish and repulsive, but too many of my friends keep wlaking back in allowing it to happen, I just can't go "oh you poor thing, your so controlled by your emotions you cna't help yourself"

Male or Female, thats just lazy and pathetic.

cherrychic · 11-27-2005, 08:56 PM

GOD!! it's so amazing how stupid people are.

franscar · 11-28-2005, 08:22 AM

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Originally Posted by Vanilla

Do guys/girls ever grow up when it comes to relationships? Even just a bit? Because so far I havn't had any.

They do when they meet "the one". And even then it's touch and go.

ArtistInTheAmbulance · 11-28-2005, 01:08 PM

Back to topic for once ...

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Originally Posted by Vanilla

AITA: I completely feel you on this one. Guys are so much easier to get along with, as long as they know you only want to be friends. Girls are bitchy, scatty, and liers. I have three girl mates that I can completely trust, but that's all.

Guys are innocent either, they lie and manipulate girls who are interested in them, just for attention, then when bored, turn them away with lame excuses. Pathetic.

Do guys/girls ever grow up when it comes to relationships? Even just a bit? Because so far I havn't had any.

Yeah, I know what you mean. I wasnt really trying to make it out like guys are perfect and all, it just sounded like it I guess.. I just have no faith in wimmen any more. Theres two gals I can trust, and I think the world of them. When girls want to be nice and trusting, theyre brilliant at it, but they could just turn that right around at any point.

franscar · 11-28-2005, 02:33 PM

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Originally Posted by ArtistInTheAmbulance

I wasnt really trying to make it out like guys are perfect and all

Some of us are. Well ok, I am.

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Originally Posted by AITA

I just have no faith in wimmen any more. Theres two gals I can trust, and I think the world of them. When girls want to be nice and trusting, theyre brilliant at it, but they could just turn that right around at any point.

Yeah. I seem to keep a girlie best friend for a year or two, then they stab me in the back and act like it's my fault. That pretty much sucks. But then almost immediately another one will come along and take their place as the girlie best friend. I have a strange, slightly surreal life.

**Scarlett O'Hara** · 11-29-2005, 12:43 AM

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Originally Posted by ArtistInTheAmbulance

Back to topic for once ...

Yeah, I know what you mean. I wasnt really trying to make it out like guys are perfect and all, it just sounded like it I guess.. I just have no faith in wimmen any more. Theres two gals I can trust, and I think the world of them. When girls want to be nice and trusting, theyre brilliant at it, but they could just turn that right around at any point.

Oh I wasn't suggesting you were suggesting that love, I was just carrying on the points!

And yes I agree! Is it true that people trust unattractive people more than attractive people, or the other way around? I can't remember but I know I heard it somewhere!

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