the middle sucks (underwater, show, Hang)

holdyoualways · 11-24-2005, 10:04 AM

ok so i have a little situation that needs taking care of and im not sure how to really...take care of it. my two best friends came up from college for a couple of days and we were all planning on going out on saturday (not a definete plan yet but im crossing my fingers). the thing is, my other friend wants to coem along too. and the college girls and my sister dont really like her and to be honest she gets on my nerves a lot. so im basically the one who has to somehow politley tell her if she calls that we dont really want her there. i mean she would pretty much be a downer just talking about herself the whole time and trying to get all of my attention and plus i havent seen my college friends in 45820381 years so this is pretty important that we hang out. so this proposes a problem. i dont really wanna hurt her feelings cuz im kind of like her only friend so...what do i do? keep in mind that im a pretty nice girl so id rather not say to her "go **** yourself" like im sure some of you would suggest. any help would be greatly appreciated-im shaking in my snowboots over here.

yeah this might be a rather pointless thread but who the **** cares?

riseagainstrocks · 11-24-2005, 10:23 AM

Say there was a change of plans and you aren't going to the mall. Than go to the mall anyway. If you see her at the mall anyhow, tell her how you feel. Leading someone on like that is mean.

holdyoualways · 11-24-2005, 10:49 AM

yeah i thought about doing that. im not too big on lying though. she cant drive though so she wouldnt unexpectedly show up at the mall. thats part of the reason why we dont really want her around because its totally out of our way to have to go pick her up and stuff.

Spikey · 11-24-2005, 11:03 AM

I think you need to spend more time with her. I'm sure she's a very nice person...I'd take her the more the merrier. She can talk to the others too, you know. Tell that she can make more friends while she out with you guys. Then she'll be their problem. You need her to get involved with more people. You're her only friend...Treat her like one, you'll find that you can get the best friend you need for the rest of your life. It's happened to my dad. I swear just try. She loves your company, make her feel needed and she'll do anything for you

But that's just my suggestion

sleepy jack · 11-24-2005, 12:42 PM

^Seriously read her post oprah.

Well if your not big on lying.
Just dont go to the mall with your friends.
and go somewhere else.
and say "i tried to tell you but your phone was busy"
Barely any lying involved.

holdyoualways · 11-24-2005, 12:47 PM

...you do realize where i live right?

sleepy jack · 11-24-2005, 12:49 PM

Yeah...twould be hard to avoid her in a car underwater

Well then i suggest.
Saying "Listen *insert other friends name who you dislike the most here* doesn't like you much i mean i do! but she doesnt shes stupid so shes making me tell you not to come so im sorry i want you to but she doesnt. Yeah bye.

holdyoualways · 11-24-2005, 12:54 PM

yes...that is where i live. this is what i was thinking of saying. and to avoid sounding like a retard im using their real names.

"vicky cant really pick you up because its completely out of the way for her and its a waste of gas."

which is the truth but there could be so many other things that would come flying out of her mouth to try to get herself to go. im thinking of just letting my sister or vicky herself handle it, seeing as how shes done this before and has no problem telling people theyre stupid. im such a ***.

sleepy jack · 11-24-2005, 12:56 PM

Or that.
Hahha or just dont pick her up.

holdyoualways · 11-24-2005, 01:00 PM

did YOU read my post oprah?

11-24-2005, 10:04 AM	#1 (permalink)
holdyoualways Elevator to the moon Join Date: May 2005 Location: Snowy, cold, miserable Pennsylvania Posts: 1,088	the middle sucks ok so i have a little situation that needs taking care of and im not sure how to really...take care of it. my two best friends came up from college for a couple of days and we were all planning on going out on saturday (not a definete plan yet but im crossing my fingers). the thing is, my other friend wants to coem along too. and the college girls and my sister dont really like her and to be honest she gets on my nerves a lot. so im basically the one who has to somehow politley tell her if she calls that we dont really want her there. i mean she would pretty much be a downer just talking about herself the whole time and trying to get all of my attention and plus i havent seen my college friends in 45820381 years so this is pretty important that we hang out. so this proposes a problem. i dont really wanna hurt her feelings cuz im kind of like her only friend so...what do i do? keep in mind that im a pretty nice girl so id rather not say to her "go ** yourself" like im sure some of you would suggest. any help would be greatly appreciated-im shaking in my snowboots over here. yeah this might be a rather pointless thread but who the ** cares? __________________ You're my satellite <3

11-24-2005, 10:23 AM	#2 (permalink)
riseagainstrocks Music Addict Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: DC Posts: 3,320	Say there was a change of plans and you aren't going to the mall. Than go to the mall anyway. If you see her at the mall anyhow, tell her how you feel. Leading someone on like that is mean. __________________ One note timeless, came out of nowhere...

11-24-2005, 10:49 AM	#3 (permalink)
holdyoualways Elevator to the moon Join Date: May 2005 Location: Snowy, cold, miserable Pennsylvania Posts: 1,088	yeah i thought about doing that. im not too big on lying though. she cant drive though so she wouldnt unexpectedly show up at the mall. thats part of the reason why we dont really want her around because its totally out of our way to have to go pick her up and stuff. __________________ You're my satellite <3

11-24-2005, 11:03 AM	#4 (permalink)
Spikey Music Addict Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 277	I think you need to spend more time with her. I'm sure she's a very nice person...I'd take her the more the merrier. She can talk to the others too, you know. Tell that she can make more friends while she out with you guys. Then she'll be their problem. You need her to get involved with more people. You're her only friend...Treat her like one, you'll find that you can get the best friend you need for the rest of your life. It's happened to my dad. I swear just try. She loves your company, make her feel needed and she'll do anything for you But that's just my suggestion __________________ www.myspace.com/emeraldskyrock

11-24-2005, 12:47 PM	#6 (permalink)
holdyoualways Elevator to the moon Join Date: May 2005 Location: Snowy, cold, miserable Pennsylvania Posts: 1,088	...you do realize where i live right? __________________ You're my satellite <3

11-24-2005, 12:54 PM	#8 (permalink)
holdyoualways Elevator to the moon Join Date: May 2005 Location: Snowy, cold, miserable Pennsylvania Posts: 1,088	yes...that is where i live. this is what i was thinking of saying. and to avoid sounding like a retard im using their real names. "vicky cant really pick you up because its completely out of the way for her and its a waste of gas." which is the truth but there could be so many other things that would come flying out of her mouth to try to get herself to go. im thinking of just letting my sister or vicky herself handle it, seeing as how shes done this before and has no problem telling people theyre stupid. im such a ***. __________________ You're my satellite <3

11-24-2005, 01:00 PM	#10 (permalink)
holdyoualways Elevator to the moon Join Date: May 2005 Location: Snowy, cold, miserable Pennsylvania Posts: 1,088	did YOU read my post oprah? __________________ You're my satellite <3