pregnant, own a house and im getting married. i dont see whats so wrong.

Maybe it's that you'll now have to choose between wasting the best years of your life, or ruining your childs life. Either way is unsavoury.

Somehow I get the feeling this isn't going anywhere. Spike, I unbanned you because Fenix seemed to think you'd be able to explain yourself, but I doubt that'll happen somehow. Thread is locked, don't start another one. He can ban you if he wants, but this "topic" is done.